If being honest gets you in trouble, would you stop being honest and just say what would make the situation better for the moment or continue being honest despite getting in trouble. (in my case it seems its just constant trouble for me)
2006-07-10 06:45:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OMG i didnt mean it like that and you didnt get in any trouble all i said was that your(never mind i dont want to say anything anymore.I didnt point at your honesty.anyways if i did offend you in anyway i am sorry for that and i didnt mean any harm at all and i am not a tease to anyone.If i dont feel like going out with someone i am not gonna go.I am so not scare from honesty,i just wanted girls opinion.Now i am not saying even sorry to him.he can go to hell.Bye take care.
2006-07-11 03:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 7⤊ 4⤋
I have lived a life of being very careful what I say and to not hurt anyone else's feelings....I let people walk all over me and treat me like dirt....that stopped 2 yrs. ago....I finally started sticking up for myself and telling it like it was....a lot of people did not appreciate this change in me....mind you, I was never rude about speaking up..just honest and forward. I spoke my honest opinion and when someone started to treat me in a way that I felt was uncalled for...I told them about it. I have reconsidered a lot of freindships because of this and I have lost quite a few ....but let me tell you, I'm sooooo much happier and I have peace of mind now...no-one can replace these feelings and I would do it all over again if given the chance.
My advice to you is to always be honest, as long as you aren't saying or doing anything in a super negative way....it's just the better road to take, you'll feel better about yourself knowing that you've given it your all!
2006-07-10 13:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my worst qualities is that I am too honest. I am always getting in trouble because of it. I don't understand why people ask for the truth if they don't want to hear it. But you know...that's just me. I believe in honesty and I refuse to start lying just to make other people happy. Hope this helps.
2006-07-10 13:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by silent.peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alway be honest. You may not be liked but you will be respected.
I am this way...I don't lie...I was taught that lying is like putting a black mark on your soul. Are there times I won't tell the truth...yes...like expaining something to one of my younger children when I don't think they can handle or understand the truth. I may not have many friends...but the ones I do have know they can trust me always.
2006-07-10 13:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by Rabbit Ritto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation, you have to pick your battles wisely. And you do not necessarily have to go along worth the moment you can say nothing at all in some instances just so that you are not agreeing just to agree.
2006-07-10 13:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bien honest is something u must decied if the thing u going to lie about gonna cost lot of problem or pain to the other part then u must tell the truth but if it wasent much big deal then forget about it
2006-07-10 13:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by superguy0084 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see what the situations is first and just take it one day at a time easy you will be fine
2006-07-10 13:48:10 · answer #7 · answered by ahrtracy13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXXXXXX if you do the right thing and respect people and have high values and morals and treat everyone as equal,,why is it so hard to be honest.? XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-10 13:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say always tell the truth and lye when you have too.
2006-07-10 13:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by aaakids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being honest is always best. try being more tactfull while still being honest.
2006-07-10 13:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋