ok i think my bf is talking to other girls on the phone. and when i ask him he sometimes says no and sometimes he tells the truth. but i sometimes feel that when i ask him he lies and says that he aint talkin to nobody and i kinda think he is. see the other day he was talking to my homegirl on the phone, we've been homegirls since the 2nd grade and no we're both 15 and he told me that he stayed on the phone wit her 4 about 1hr. and i said thats 2 long 4 ya'll not to have nothing going on and he was talking to other girls b4 and i knew about em. and so the other night i told him that i was gonna stop talking to other boys 2 and 4 the past couple of days he says that he havent talked to anyone. so i really need help should i start talkin to other boyz on the phone and i realy dont want to because i have really emotional feelngs and i dont like talking yo other boys and lying about it so wat should i do??!!
2006-07-10 06:43:53 · 11 answers · asked by courtney o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should discuss this with him... what can we do? track his phone records? lol
just talk about it. sounds like you're having jealousy problems and the only way to solve them is to be open about it. and i don't mean on the internet. tell him about your thoughts/concerns. see what happens.
2006-07-10 06:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by geri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds just like a child. You seem to already realize one fact, men will and do lie. Chances are he's talking to other girls. And if your homegirl is such a homegirl, what is she doing talking to him on the phone? As if she can't hang up the phone. And to want to talk on the phone with other boys just because he's talking with other girls is immature. It's not going to hurt his feelings any. You need to get rid of him and find someone else
2006-07-10 13:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need some one like that at your age. You should be having fun and enjoying life not having this stress. Dump him and have a great time with your friends and then you can talk to as many boys as you like. You should be doing that, no one should be telling you who you can and cant speak to. Good luck
2006-07-10 13:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well one thing you should do is check his cell phone and his voice mail... lyk when ur with him just play around or b lyk o i have to make a phone call.... check how many gurl #'s he has... also check his voicemails to c if their gurls......if he talks to gurls y cant u ......remmember never get to serious over a relationship because u will end up heart broken....if a guy taks to a gurl that long, c how long u regularly talk to him on the phone... if its less than the other gurls than i dont think ur relationship is going in the right direction.... also check his cellohone for his recent dialed calls n c if their gurls
2006-07-10 13:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by SofaKingBored23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are still young and boys that young don't mature until they're older. You can't usually trust them at that age because they have no intentions of being in a serious relationship, even if you do. I hope all works out.
this is coming from a 24 yr. old female.
2006-07-10 13:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jodi M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of great guys out there. Seriously, move on.
Lying is one thing you should never, ever tolerate; if you don't have the truth from him you don't know what you have and life is too short to put up with that B.S.
2006-07-10 13:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by Steve W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one ain't right if he wants to be a playa let him but not with you on the side...honey do what you want....maybe you should be on the phone with one of his homeboys....maybe this kinda reverse pshycology will break his heart or make him think....you ain't screwing around and either should he....other than that....if he don't realize his wrong his *** deserves a standing ovation into the nearest gutter.
2006-07-10 13:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Mother2one238 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should dump him. I'm the same age as you . and I'm telling you that from a sister that Benn through a lot of relationships
. good luck
2006-07-10 14:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by loli pop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. You don't need to be involved with guys that you think are talking with other girls. There are MANY other attractive guys, just pick one.
2006-07-10 13:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by Pug_Luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are only 15... you do not need to waste your time with a liar.
Dump him and find someone who appreciates you and is honest with you.
2006-07-10 13:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by Leah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋