me and my husband had a threesome with a very close friend of mine
now we are having problems with her
2006-07-10 06:40:44 · 16 answers · asked by MINDY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXit happens al the time we just have to learn and live but our mistakes and try not to repeat them. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-10 06:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - hasn't happened - and yes, had same circumstances. This was a long time ago. We (both females - friends) were both mature (not old) but mature enough to handle it though. With a threesome there can be issues that pop up and you just have to talk them out. You don't realize how it can affect a person until it happens. You think of it as a fantasy and the reality may or may not be what you expected. But what kind of problems? It's hard to answer the question not knowing.
2006-07-10 13:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god. That's a no-no. Don't share your man, especially with a friend! I ruined a good friendship over sex. Different circumstances though. I had a best friend and after 15 years of friendship we started to have sex. We thought that we could be in a serious relationship but it didn't work. Although we were good friends and good in the sac, we weren't suited at all. We had huge conflict and sadly have parted ways never to speak again. If I could go back in time, I would....to get my friend back.
2006-07-10 13:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman once told me that sex ALWAYS ruins friendships.
I've kept that in my mind over about 30 years and tried to see if it is true. Sadly, it almost always is.
I would recommend that you part company with your ex-friend (because you are no longer friends, the relationship has already changed) as amiciably as possible and don't repeat your mistake.
2006-07-10 13:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For this kind of relationship, it'll take a special people who are very open with each other. I've had relationships ruined over sex before...so you really have screen people very carefully before you let them in your bedroom. If you can, try to talk with her and find out what's up. Best of luck to you........
2006-07-10 13:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have it made a big difference like everything change, nothing was the same and i so regret it. To this day im still trying to figure it out
2006-07-10 13:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by Im da Example 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was seeing a girl that I really liked until we had sex and it went down hill now we dont even speak!!!???
2006-07-10 13:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by mgw20nwv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not mention what the problems are. That would help.
2006-07-10 13:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too many times. Im all out of friends ...just kidding
2006-07-10 13:45:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had problems like that
2006-07-10 14:00:59 · answer #10 · answered by losttrumpeter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋