How to tell that special someone that she's beautiful? It's not that simple guys. I really would like to tell her but....... She thinks Im lieing... Everytime I tell her, she gets angry and thinks that Im not being honest with her. What can I do guys?
Here's the story. As we were still friends (bestfriends), I compared her with the others (i was just joking with her)... I told her that this other girl was more beautiful than her. She was so angry at me...lol.. And she asked her friends if that girl was beautiful and then my friends said that the other girl was ugly... Now, she thinks that shes ugly and everytime I tell her that shes beautiful, she gets angry with me...
I dont know how to convince her guys. Shes a sensitive kind of girl. Im telling her the truth but she thinks im a liar which isn't true... Please help me guys..... By the way, she's my girlfriend for 4 months now... It was the only issue that bothers me a lot... She told me she believes me now but I think she doesn't
2006-07-10 06:23:29 · 6 answers · asked by one-of-a-kind 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thanks guys... We were just joking around as I told her about the other girl. We were bestfriends you know... I know that I was wrong about that. I never thought that I would fall in love with her this much... Now that were together, I haven't told her any bad joke coz I know that she would be hurt. I dont want to her. She's my everything...
2006-07-10 06:41:44 · update #1
I meant on my last details, ~~i dont want to hurt her. Shes my everything.
2006-07-10 06:45:01 · update #2
Think of another word instead using beautiful. Women really do like to hear praise, and I always find something to compliment my wife on. It really makes them feel good. Some girls have a very low self esteem, so giving compliments like that helps them out. If she takes jokes very seriously, then don't joke with her about serious things. This will have to be something you'll have to learn and get used to. You can also give her flowers....."Just Because", which would help convince her. Now one warning, don't pile on compliments, cause then they won't mean nothing. Just give a compliment when it's due, and it'll be well appreciated. You'll see. Take your time with this.....best of luck to you........
2006-07-10 06:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you have been playing with her emotions too much!!! Grow up!
First of all, you were jerking her around, so you can't expect her to believe that you've changed overnight. Women become sensitive about matters when guys are treating them badly.
If you truly believe that she is your "everything" then you won't joke with her about other women and you won't play with her emotions the way that you've been doing. Either you treat her like she is your everything or you get out of the relationship. If you treat her like your "everything" for long enough, then she will eventually believe you.
2006-07-10 06:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by Vanessa B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol im sorry but this is kinda funny :P when u guys are hanging out, just gently grab her face with both of your hands at any random moment look her straight in the eyes and say "your not just cute, your not just pretty, you are beautiful". Say it with meaning.
2006-07-10 06:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by melissa c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well give it some time but when u tell that shes pretty say it like u mean it, with feeling then touch her face or grab her hand and then tell her!:)
2006-07-10 06:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by sexylexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares you cant make her believe what you want she decides what to believe and if she doesnt belive you there is probably a reason shes doin someone else
2006-07-10 06:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by Ralphie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Drop it. Find other things to compliment her on.
2006-07-10 06:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by Delora Gloria 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋