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Ok so me and my friend are in this fight, and she sayz that ur not a good friend if u dont support them with EVERYTHING, but should u really support them if it could hurt them, or is somethin that they shouldn't be doin????

2006-07-10 06:21:43 · 12 answers · asked by luvin_life 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

12 answers

Actually a really good friend is a person who looks out for their best friends interests even if it means that person will end their friendship. Friendship is caring enough to stop a friend from doing something wrong/stupid.

2006-07-10 06:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0 0

Here's the deal: you should support them even if you don't support their decision. Ultimately, they will thank you for being supportive of them as a person. He/she has to realize for his/her self that their decision is a bad one. My friend was in an abusive relationship and I talked to her rationally about the whole situation. I told her that I would be here for her no matter what and that she, NOT her decision to stay with him, had my support. Eventually they broke up and she realized what I had been thinking all along. Try it and see. If she's really a mature friend who respects you and your perspective, she will understand where you were coming from to begin with.

2006-07-10 06:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by Afrodite 2 · 0 0

you dont have to support what they are doing or enable them to do it in any way, but you should let them know that even though you arent going to do whatever it is with her, and you do not support it, you will be there for her if she needs you.... and remind her that you wouldnt be a real and true friend if you weren't concerned about her wellbeing, safety, and health. A true friend will always voice a concern, and a fake friend will not.....

she's being stubborn and immature.... you dont have to throw all this in her face, just talk to her about it, and let he know you love her.... but beware, even though you tell her all of this, she might not be ready to hear you, so in the event of this, be there for her even more....thats when they need you

good luck!

2006-07-10 06:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Whitney 4 · 0 0

By protecting your friend, you are supporting them. Only THAT is a good friend.

It is up to friends to tell us when we are doing something stupid and keep us from doing it. Example - that girl who disappeared in Aruba. What the hell were her friends thinking letting her leave by herself with people they didn't know? Sure, maybe the chick really liked this guy or it was her opportunity to hook up or something, but her friends still should have rained on her parade and said, "Honey I don't think so." If we can't depend on our friends to tell us not to do something stupid, then who can we depend on? If you help her do something stupid, you are NOT supporting her.

2006-07-10 06:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0 0

well to be a good friend u have to support ur friends but if its something that can hurt them then u need to tell them that u cant support it cuz u dont want 2 support something that can hurt them

2006-07-10 06:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by sticky2701 1 · 0 0

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2016-12-10 07:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you should always support them as a friend...called tough love when ya tell a friend what you really think and hard to do, but if you are truely a friend you will.
let them know you are their friend but what they are doing is wrong or harmful to them and you are worried about them
let them know you are always there to support them through the good and bad, but you care enough to let them know when they are screwing up

2006-07-10 06:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0 0

I know what you are saying!!!

For one, you listen to your gut!

For two, your friends shouldn't change who you are or how you feel about things...

Good luck!

(i just ended a life long friendship because I couldn't sit by and watch a friend screw her life up, I tried to talk to her but she got defensive and didn't value my opinion, so I told her I couldn't be friends with someone I couldn't respect)

2006-07-10 06:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by Apple Blossom 4 · 0 0

it depends what the thing ur keepin frm em is.my mate kept summat i wud o preffered to no frm me b4.in the ned i just ended up findin out off sum1 else.she sed shel tel me nxt time tho =]

2006-07-10 06:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by lisa 2 · 0 0

No your friend is being selfish. Complete loyalty to someone eventhough it hurts them isn't friendship. Your friend is manipulating you.

2006-07-10 06:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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