I've known this girl since preschool and she's a year younger than me. I'm about to be 17 in september. she goes to my church and is the biggest flirt i know. she'll flirt with boys right in front of her boyfriends. at 1 point she had like eight boyfreinds at once. she dated our old pastors son when she was 14, he was like 20. but before that she started flirting with this boy who was new 2 our church, and she knew i liked him. and now she's dating another boy in out church! and our church isnt that big! she actually had sex with the 20 yr old. wat should i say to her?
2006-07-10 06:20:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like she's searching for self-esteem in all the wrong places - something to fill a void.
Help her find her respect for herself. She is not going to find that or love or true happiness by connecting with everyone she knows. She has to find these things inside herself before she can feel love from the outside and fill that void.
2006-07-10 06:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you should be obligated to tell her anything at all. There's nothing you can say to her that would change anything, and it would only frustrate you further. I think you should ignore her activities, let her deal with them, and for you to go off on your own direction of pursuing a life with a higher level of ethics and quality. I find that the types of person you speak of will eventually suffer the consequences of reckless judgment. These are the people who end up in repetitive bad, unsatisfying relationships and eternal puzzled looks on their face about 'what's wrong and why can't I find the right person?' Be satisfied that you know what your seeing and you don't like it enough to be someone different.
2006-07-10 13:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how good of friends you are really... but it sounds like to me, that if this girl doesn't get her life on the right track soon.. she's going to get pregnant or she's going to he**. I hate those kind of girls who think they can have every guy in the world.. If u like this guy and he's truly smart.. he should be able to see past her facade and move on to better things. Heck.. if u could ask the guy to hang out and whoopsie see this girl with one of other guys she's going out with ;) things might be solved
2006-07-10 13:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by mystic_angel_1707 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. A person is going to do what they want. If you are really her friend, just support her. I've been to prison. My family tried to tell me things, but I didn't want to hear it. I had to learn on my own. Be there for her, help her when she needs it, give her a shoulder to cry on...The stuff friendship is made of.
2006-07-10 13:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by Cowboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to her and tell her how yu fell and tell her that she needs to slow down and if she knew that you liked this boy she would not have done that if she was your friend just talk to her
2006-07-10 13:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Dae Dae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be a Sl*t!
2006-07-10 13:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by Lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋