As some ppl may know what happened in my other question, I was backstabbed by my friends. Now, the girl apolizied, and my ex, her and I are friends... "FRIENDS"...
I mean, I forgive them--on the outside. But not the inside. They're nice and all, and it would be PEACEFUL (I HATE all the drama I had) if we all just shut-up& got along. But they hurted me SO MUCH, that I think I'll never forgive them. (I'm a pretty sensitive person)...........what should I do?................
2006-07-10 06:17:17 · 7 answers · asked by blah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Screw them. Evict them from your world and find some true friends. That much effort does not make a friendship. They are toxic.
"A friend is not necessarily someone you love because of who THEY are,but because of who YOU are when you are with them."
2006-07-10 06:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think they are sincere you should forgive them & be freinds. If you don't trust them & it is causing you pain you can't get past, forgive them & find new freinds, new intrests. It maybe a good time for you to expand as a person. Try something new. Good Luck
2006-07-10 13:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by shouldbworkn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your good because i could not be friends with either one of them. i think you should give the friendship and relationship some time, you need time to heal. they might be nice and all but if they were all that nice they would not have hurt you the way they did. you need time to think. and ask yourself questions? will they do it again? and how you know they wont do it again?
2006-07-10 13:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by LASHANNA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel and it sucks but if I were you I would forgive them but NEVER forget what they did. If they do it again then I wouldnt be friends with them anymore b/c if they did it again then they arnt your true friends.
2006-07-10 13:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by Whitney_Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is not smooth all the time, u need to learn forgive n forget so u can enjoy yr life.
2006-07-10 13:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by bongtom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to them and even then if they don't understand just break friendship with them probably you should not have friends who cannot understand you
ALL THE BEST
2006-07-10 13:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by gouls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no only if they say sorry to u
2006-07-12 13:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by TT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋