just curious what other people do, sometimes I am just plain not in the mood, and I know that my husband is, how can I get myself in the mood?
2006-07-10 06:16:30 · 5 answers · asked by ndussere 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Go pamper yourself, get your hair and nails done, get a facial, buy something sexy even something edible. Do something nice for yourself. Have a romantic dinner (candlelights, champagne / wine, soft music by Luther Vandross, Lionel Ritchie, Michael Bolton, Celine Dion, Instrumental something from Kenny J etc.) an exotic dessert (strawberries, different types of fruits, whipped cream, chocolate). Then let your husband give you a full body massage using sensual oils, some foreplay (kissing, caressing). Change your attitude, think of all the GOOD SEX times you've shared with your husband. All these things should set you in the mood for a great evening / night. ENJOY YOURSELF and PLEASE / SURPRISE YOUR MAN, HONEY.
2006-07-10 07:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by tykky 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't think porno is the answer because in most cases it doesn't bring two people closer together. But getting a sex book might help. Learn different ways to do things. Maybe you could start out with a sexy rub-down (candles Far away from the oil). Maybe you could each masterbate infront of each other. Just be good to each other, LOVE each other, and take the act in the direction of the mood you are in. There are LOTS of ways to love one another.
2006-07-10 13:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Passion Independant Consultant, and I teach the guys and gals at my parties that everyone has their own way of jumpstarting the drive. You need to find out why you aren't in the mood. This can happen for various reasons, from stress to physical to lack of envolvement from your partner. Once you have narrowed the why's, then you can work on the remedy. You may find that his approach isn't working for you, or you need more emotional stimulation (mental foreplay). If you like we can discuss more privaltely.
2006-07-10 13:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by nightwindcc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbate infront of each other is a good way to start but if u don't hv the mood u won't even think of masturbating. maybe u should relax yourself and start to wear something sexy that will trigger him to feel ur breast and make u horney. from y experience, wgenever i touch a girl's breast she will feel a need for sex or maybe have sex in the park.
2006-07-10 13:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by noodles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch porno and imagine u r doing it with another man but not with your hubby.
2006-07-10 13:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by P2KMan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋