2006-07-10 06:04:53 · 10 answers · asked by etido ukpong 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Respect her decision. You can't MAKE her do anything she doesn't want to do. Just spend the night cuddling and talking. Give back, feet and hand massages. See where it leads. Maybe it will just take a little bit until it settles in that you guys are really married and she feels more comfortable being intimate. If you plan it too long before the wedding, she might still feel a little uncomfortable with the thought. So let it sink in a little. And if she does finally agree during the honeymoon, go out of your way to please her as much as you can. And be gentle!
2006-07-10 06:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by chica_zarca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely respect her decision, but maybe there's more to this than what you are telling. Has she been traumatized in the past? Is she scared? If so, have you tried to console her? Have you found out why she is scared? There are different reasons she may have decided to hold out until she got married and now she may have other reasons that she doesn't want to consummate the marriage.
2006-07-10 13:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by cindy p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should respect ur choice. that might mean the world to her so if u respect that then u might mean the world to her and once she loves u and wants to have a family and shes know that ur understanding and loving and u repect her discions then she wouldn't mind loosing her virginity for u.... by the way when a lady says no "NO MEANS NO" so hopefully u can respect that and maybe u can gain her respect and gain trust between each other.
2006-07-10 13:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by naqeel819 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must respect her decision and be patient enought to wait for the time she is ready.
In the same respect, she should consider your feelings and realize that you have needs.
But, never TAKE something that is not freely offered
2006-07-10 13:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by Wild seed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be kinda mad..but hey- if you weren't getting any before then whats the big deal with getting it right then and there?
2006-07-10 13:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by ignoresociety 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
damn thats hard core a virgin where did you find her? just be patiant itll be worth it unless you blow your load too soon
2006-07-10 13:08:56 · answer #6 · answered by DIRKDIGGLER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect her decision. talk about it more.
2006-07-10 13:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by Joey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone you sex-maniac!
2006-07-10 13:10:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her decision....
And wait...........
2006-07-10 13:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by Sumeet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her.
2006-07-10 13:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋