2006-07-10 05:48:55 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I didn't have sex with him. as a matter of fact i wasn't even that interested until he started saying these wonderfully sweet things. I knew better, I just got caught up in the bullshit, and I'm aware it goes both ways, excuse my disrimination.
2006-07-10 06:19:49 · update #1
Ladies: this might help you. There are several reasons I guy will cut you off for no reason. 1) He likes you to much and is scared of a relationship. 2) He's a douche and he got what he wanted and skated off. 3) He never really liked you and he didn't want to dump you properly. 4) He found someone else. This is the top one I have heard from guys b/c most of my guys friends tell me freakin everything. 5) You did something that he didn't like (it could be a action or a habit or even something you said and didn't realize that he didn't like it). He will never tell you about it b/c he doesn't want to debate it. He would just rather walk away.
Ladies I hope this helps. Guys are free to tell me if I am wrong.
2006-07-10 05:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by Corona S 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You haven't found the right man yet or quite possibly just not any men mature enough for your tastes. If you are sleeping with these guys and then they are cutting you off then that may be your answer right there... they just want sex and when they get it they just want to move on to see what else is out there. Unfortunately a lot of guys get caught up in their hormones and don't think twice about hurting anothers feelings in the process of appeasing their sex drives. It's sad but good guys are out there.
2006-07-10 05:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by casbar12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're players - in for the thrill, and out of town before things get too serious. If you don't give them too much, you won't feel cut off or used. Don't figure that you can change them - look for a man who wants the same things you do in life. When you have a commitment going, then consider giving a little at a time. (commitment = several months or years) All we have in this life is ourselves. Once intimate with someone, it tends to cheapen the process over time when we don't save ourselves for the "right" person. Save yourself for the guy who wants to stay - and proves it to you by hanging around for a long time before he gets any. There are guys out there like that, and they tend to respect their women a whole lot more than the guys just in for a good time.
2006-07-10 06:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by mumsy_of_two 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people in general, not just men, will lead you on only if YOU allow them to do so. There are women who do the same to men. The problem is immaturity on both sides. You have to learn to assert yourself whether it be in a relationship or life in general. Decide what you want from someone NOT what they want from YOU! It is a two way street and there should be a share of the pie for you in it also. Do not be ashamed or embarrassed that guys have lead you on...it is never too late to change how YOU are treated by the way YOU allow YOURSELF to be treated!
2006-07-10 06:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As being one of said race, I must say that most men have no idea how to express themselves in a healthy way that is sensitive to the other one in the relationship. The best advice I can give to anyone, is if you are in a relationship or not, YOU come first. Take care.
2006-07-10 05:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all men are like that. there are men that are just afraid of commitment, they get sex from you and move on. you're better off without those kind. be more selective in the men you get with. if you don't give it up and they leave you anyway, you're better off without him too. keep looking.........there are men out there that are looking for a good woman for who she is and not just what she is in bed. good luck. P.S.remember there is a double standard out there,.....it's ok for a guy to have slept with 100 women but women are easy and sleazy if they sleep with 100 men.
2006-07-10 05:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by budred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on their age some men find loving a women as a sign of weakness in front of their peers. A women hanging on when he's not interested makes him think his a pimp. They grow up eventually.
2006-07-10 05:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are men and once they get what they want, we become bothersome. And if you haven't given them what they want they move on to a new conquest because men are primarly immature and thinking with the wrong head.
2006-07-10 05:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by twanieskies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
2006-07-10 05:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by David M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men actually do have a reason they just don't like to open up and explain why.... So you take it as no reason but remember there is a reason for everything..
2006-07-10 05:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by Toya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋