already had sex
2006-07-10 05:40:05 · 51 answers · asked by kelvinsorto@verizon.net 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
NO! If an STD, AIDS or a pregnancy arises it will become a LEGAL situation called STATUTORY RAPE (and YOU are the victim).
Stay away from sex for a few more years...even with kids your age. Stick to masturbation if you MUST do something.
But honestly, find a hobby, and keep your pants on. For your own safety!
2006-07-10 05:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 13, I certainly wasn't thinking about sex. Don't you have friends to play with? Don't you have homework to do? What the hell will you do if you're a father at 13, since it's illegal for you to work, I'm guessing you don't have a job to support a child. What if you got some disease, and there you are, 13 years old and set up to die? So not cool. Not to mention, whoever is having sex with you is doing something highly illegal, that's considered child molestation, and she can go to jail for that. Right now the 5 year age difference is HUGE, there are enormous differences between 13 and 18! Wait until you're 18 and 23, things will go a lot better, and you will be much better prepared to deal with any consequences. What's with this "I already had sex" business. It's not like once you get started you have to keep doing it. Besides, sex is so overrated anyhow. You need to stop, and whether or not you turn to your parents for advice and help, or a teacher or someone, you need counseling. So, I highly suggest that you talk to an adult, and of course they're going to freak out and probably scream at you, but that's what happens with parents when the panic sets in. Hopefully you have someone strong for you, who can help you get over this, and help you work on developing more important skills, like, how to get a job, and how to get into college, because that's what your teens are for, then, when you're in your 20s have all the PROTECTED sex you feel like. Until then, respect your body!!!
2006-07-10 05:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by Tessa ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, an 18 year old boy knows that you are far to young to be having sex with anyone. Your emotions are not fully under control so you could not make a rational decision about that. Chances are that the boy is going to bed you and forget you. You are too young to go through something like that now. Besides, if you have sex at 13, what have you got to look forward to? I know that may sound dumb but there is a time a place for everything. You can't go from Barbie dolls to condoms in one year. Take some time to enjoy yourself and don't be in a hurry to rush into adult things.
When you get to be an adult, you wish that you hadn't tried to be one so quickly and had taken the time to enjoy the kid stuff.
2006-07-10 05:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by Paula L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that really is a toughie. Age really is only a number, but you are SLIGHTLY young. I'm just wondering if, at 13, you can handle the emotional responsibilities that come along with having a sexual relationship with someone that much older. Your best bet is really to wait at LEAST until you're 16 and you know what you want out of a relationship and will know when you're being pushed into something you don't really want to do. Bottom line: when it comes to sex, always take it slow and make sure you use protection.
2006-07-10 05:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by riles2507 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck nah the 18 yr old can go 2 jail 4 havin sex with u and u get an STD 4 havin sex at an early age
2006-07-10 05:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by PERSONALiTY CAPTURES DA HEART 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously think you'd regret doing it. My friend was in the exact same position at 13 as you, and when she slept with an older person, he pretended to love her-but all he really wanted was sex-that's all he wanted to do with her.
Then one day he was seen with someone else.
You think this couldn't happen to you?
You're right, there's a chance it won't-they could just dump you after you sleep with them.
On the other hand, do what you feel is right.
Mistakes-on a really big or small scale can be learned from.
2006-07-10 06:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be going to the malls and doing slumber parties with your girlfriends not being 13 and having sex, plus you can get the 18 year in some serious trouble like jail time.
2006-07-10 06:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by italianprincess_fl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not be having sex at all since your a minor but since you are just want to let u know your being used the 18 would be embarrassed of you around their friends and your just an easy lay
2006-07-10 05:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by mzrobsn414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is your mother? At 13 you should not be having sex with anyone no matter what their age is!
2006-07-10 05:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! An 18 yo should not be playing with a thirteen year old. The 18 yo is a loser!!!
2006-07-10 05:45:12 · answer #10 · answered by cubs17cub 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋