Is it love?
My boyfriend is really sweet and funny. Whenever I see him and or think about him my stomach feels like it's dropping down a fast elavator. When we are on the phone and he calls me one of his nicknames, I get butterflies and I smile in the weirdest way. We can tease each other, and we're really good friends. I feel so safe when I am just talking to him. It's so strange, because he doesn't seem to mind my bad habits, he says he likes me the way I am just fine. He gets my sense of humor and is open to my opinions. I know we have to see where this goes, but does it sound like love? Serious answers only!!!!!!!
2006-07-10 05:38:57 · 48 answers · asked by ~S~ is for Stephanie! 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey sweetie - those feelings are so great to have about someone!!! The fact that he takes you as you are is a big YES! Love is accepting someone as they are, and not trying to change them. You really have something special going - enjoy it and always remember - happiness comes from within, you are happiest when you have decided that you are happiest!
2006-07-10 05:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by Gillian003 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Too early to tell . Affections specially spell bounded affections at a young age are really really very difficult to different from Love . You want to know it is love then go for trip , some where alone like cabin in woods or a some where on the mountain (not beaches or crowded places) . Some where you have to be together 24/7 for 4-5 days , then the actions of each other will hint that is it only affection or is it love . In a condition when both of u will get over each other nerves , and the consideration each other will show will be the sign of love that you hold .
2006-07-10 05:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by s_k_latif 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are going through all those nice wonderful feelings that come with a new relationship. Is it love? Who can really say? I can tell that you highly enjoy the way that you feel when you are around him, and there sure isn't anything wrong with that. Try to keep your head about you though. Be careful, it would be very easy right now to allow your emotions to out-think your logic and that spells trouble. I know the feelings are great and it makes you want more and more of them, but you have to take it slow. It takes time to learn about each other and to see if you are truly compatible. Just remember it is easy to put somebody up on a pedestal and make them seem much greater than they really are. This only leads to disappointment when they fail to live up to the unrealistic expectations set for the fantasy version of them that you created in your head. Good luck
2006-07-10 06:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by William E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's cute, I wish I could experience something like that. Unfortunately, I'm a 21 year old male who has yet to have a girlfriend. You never mentioned how long you two been together. The situation you describe sounds like it could be love, but it depends on how long you have been together. If you are talking weeks, I would give it some time before calling it love. Love takes time, and it developes. If you two have been together for several months, it could be possible that it is love. But don't start dropping the word "love" around until you know for sure, because using love out of context is a big mistake. Good luck to you two!
2006-07-10 05:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by Josh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... Know one can tell you if you are in love or not, that is up to you. But we can offer you some advise, and maybe that will ehlp you figure it out.
Have yall been together very long? Because if you have only been together for a couple pf weeks, no it's not love. Not yet at least. It is just the new relationship giddy feeling.
My bf and I have been together about5 months now and I still get all those feelings too. Just thinking about him puts a huge grin on my face. I love him and i know it. You just have to think long and hard about how you really feel about him, not how he makes you feel.
2006-07-10 05:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No , this is first Love i guess.It gets washed at the same speed as u get it.But thats phase of life enjoy that too.But the true love u will experience as u get mature and grow up with the realities of world. The sweetness , the butterflies , funny sayings everything looks good till we are not facing realities of world.Ask a 20-30 yrs Guy or Gal about that who is searching job or is busy in making carrier.So dont be carried away this is not love just a phase of life................ok
2006-07-10 05:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by chdman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth: It sounds like it and smells like it, but depending on how long you guys have been together, it maybe a serious form of puppy love. I'm not saying it's not love but ask him what this is, but don't say it in a I need to know if you love way. Ask him can this possibly turn serious? If he says yes, then your on your way to love just ride it out. If he says I don't know, it's just puppy love and it can possibly end soon. I don't want to hurt your feelings but girls have a tendency to read to much into a relationship to early and end up scaring the guy away. I wish you all the luck in the world I hope it is.
2006-07-10 05:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Corona S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like that feeling you get when you first start dating. I get it all the time. The only way you will know if it's love is if you two wait it out. You have to go through some hardships first. If you two come out of the hardships stronger and closer, you will be heading towards love. Love isn't just some silly infatuation. Many people have different opinions and levels, but in my personal opinion, I think love is pervasive and deep. You two have to be together for longer in order to know for sure. And oh yea, good luck to the two of you!
2006-07-10 05:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far so good. It sounds like it because not only do you see each other as a couple but also as friends. But age is also a issue if you are of the age where you are considered a adult and can think and act rationally without thinking only with your heart then i would have to say yes. Love is nice isn't it :)
2006-07-10 05:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound like love to me. I am in a situation where my boyfriend just went to jail a couple days ago and I have the same feeling about him. So hold on to him as long as you can and appreciate every moment that you'll are together cause you never know what may come your way in the future.
2006-07-10 05:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by Dymon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are in the puppy love stage. Real love lasts and stands the test of time. When your butterflies go away, see how you really feel. Love should feel comfortable and nurturing. I do not know your age, but under 18 is not mature enough to know what love really is. Give it lots of time. May God bless you.
2006-07-10 05:45:26 · answer #11 · answered by kathleen m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋