My best friend is 20 yrs older than me, and I cant stop thinking about wanting him in bed. I am so attracted to him I almost get sick wanting to see him! By the way I am female, its not a gay thing!!!!! Is this weird?
2006-07-10 05:34:56 · 11 answers · asked by monkey69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is fine to feel that way. But my experience has been that if I just sit on the feeling, then I can have a really good friendly relationship. If I don't, I lose the friend. So no matter how hard it is, resist. We are made with ravenous hormones, but we don't have to ALWAYS do what they say.
2006-07-10 05:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by Delora Gloria 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're of adult age, then there's nothing anyone can do about this. But do you want a relationship with him, or a booty call? He is quite older than you....and if you go to bed with him, then it just may ruin your friendship with him. Have you thought about that? Think things over very thoroughly, and don't do anything out of impulse. Best of luck to you.........
2006-07-10 06:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not weird to want to have your best friend if they are in the opposite of sex. I would say it was more of a lust thing. It could also be a secret desire to take this relationship to the next level. You have to ask yourself is it a lust thing or a love thing. Then, you can either hold it in, or speak out your desires to your friend there and see if he feels the same way.
2006-07-10 05:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by Almighty Malachi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this would depend on how old you are and what sort of relationship you have with your mate. I would always suggest that unless you are REALLY good friends or you don't mind losing him then stay away!! It always seems like a good thing but sex will inevitably cause your friendship to change. It's not wrong but just be weary of the consequences!
2006-07-10 05:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by bombjack1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful...20 years older is a lot and you may be dissappointed somewhere down the line but if u love him and he feels the same way go for it
2006-07-10 05:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by Hypnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 is just a number and yea
2006-07-10 05:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by korrrina m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 yrs older...thats alot...BUT love knows no age
2006-07-10 05:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be maddd he is like your daddy's age or older but dont act on your feelings
2006-07-10 05:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT is OK but please try to understand his feelings and his current relationship issues before u acts on urs.
2006-07-10 05:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by s_k_latif 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
twenty years older.....he's old enough to be YOUR FATHER.
you are infatuated.. get over it.
2006-07-10 05:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋