2006-07-10 05:26:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you should not have sex as a minor because when you get dumped and have 3 kids and live in the street you will regret this !!!!!!
2006-07-10 05:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is neither wrong or right if you are making that decission. If you are forced to have sex it is WRONG. It is not your fault. If you are having sex with someone older than you and over the age of 16or 18, yes it is wrong, for them to have sex with you. It is against the a law in most states. If you are having sex with someone your own age, is it wrong... could be.
Before you can answer that question, and YOU, have to answer that question, you are the only one that is responsible for you..
you need to ask yourself these questions:
1. At the age of 14 do I have the all the correct information about my body as I need to have sex.
2. Have I had a doctors check up or paps smear.?
3. Do I have a good monitery resource like a job, the right schooling, or a large trust fund. As i know my parents are not really that rich to support me and my child if I get pragnant.
4. Am I emotionally ready for sex with a man/boy if he leaves me. As I understand that 99% of loves, leave their 14 year old girlfriends after they have sex with each other. I do have a 1% chance that we will be happy forever.
5. If I get pragnant and it is likely I will, if I don't use protection each time, who will take care of my baby when I am at school getting that higher education that requires about 8 hours a day of my time.
6. Yes, of course... about my unborn possible baby... how will i get the time to get up every two hours and feed, the baby, get some sleep, go to my job, and go to school, and have time for my social life, so I can have sex again and again.
7. If I have unprotected sex and I don't get pragnant, when I am 21, I find out I have a Venearal Decease or better yet I will have AIDS from someone in my past. Who will have sex with me then? Who will stay with me as I age and wither away from my immune system failing.
8. When I do get pragnant, and I then decide to have an abortion, will my parent pay for it, my boyfriend, or me? Or will I get the state to pay for it... as after all I am only 14 well maybe 15 now.. as it will take 9 months for the baby to grow.
If you can answer all these questions with a positive answer then YES you can have sex at 14 years old. If you have only one negitive to all the questions to your life... then the answer should be YES it is wrong to have sex at the age of 14.
2006-07-10 13:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is because at age 14 or under the age of 18 you are just a child not an adult.
2006-07-10 12:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen its not about the age...its if ur mentally and emotionally ready for sex it changes ur life forever...it can make things more confusing and serious and, if ur dating this guy...then when or if u break up it makes it worse and more stress. Being 14 is a little early but this all depends on how u feel about it!!
2006-07-10 13:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hideously so.
Aside from the fact that you can still get pregnant, this can be construed as child molestation. At the very least, statutory rape (even if you consent, you are not of an age to be able to do so).
What if you get pregnant, what then? A sperm cell and an egg have one function. They don't care how young or old you are, whether you are being raped or molested or even if it is incest.
If the conditions are right, BLAMMO! A baby is on the way.
2006-07-10 12:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is your ''ONLY'' 14 HUNNY!! Sex is for when you are in love with the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with and once u lose it. You cant go back to being it. You dont need to be pregant now and you got your whole life ahead of you to have sex and have kids u got school, college, job, everything so dont do it ''NOW'' If you need to talk to me than IM ME OKAY BYE
2006-07-10 13:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by Dolphin lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, under the circumstances that you're in a serious relationship. If you have meaningless sex at 14 you're bound to feel upset and used and upset.
Wait for the right person.
2006-07-10 13:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it's wrong. i thought a lot about it when i was 14 too.
but i didn't want to do it. and i didn't have a boyfriend. right now too ive been single a long time.
2006-07-10 13:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not wrong. but it also depends if the person is ready. you only lose your virginity once and often young teens choose to have sex early and regret not waiting.
2006-07-10 12:31:42 · answer #9 · answered by eunju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong at 14 you dont know how emotinal and serious it is. sex is a big responsiplity!!!
2006-07-10 12:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by southerncherry_17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋