My boyfriend wants to have 3some with another girl so bad,
First off I think it's disgusting
And 2nd off it's disrespectful to me that he wants another women.
Is one girl not good enough anymore?
2006-07-10 05:23:38 · 16 answers · asked by lilkim2go 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
this is a straight male fantasy. period. guys watch this in porn and think all women will want to do this. have you told him you don't want to do this? if you are not interested in women, then he can't change that.
men think lesbians will want this. that's only in porn movies, dude! real lesbians would not only not want a man watching, but certainly would not let him join in, either! that's why we're LESBIANS! we don't want men!
if he insists, then tell him to step off and go live in fantasyland!
2006-07-10 06:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart.....
One thing you have to realize about men is this:
Men love women!....and if there's more than one woman to love, then the better it is!
Having a 3some is a comon fantasy for a man. If you're not into it, then yes, he is being a little disrespectful. He mentioned it to you hoping you'd be into it also. But you're obviously not into it.
Truth is, one girl is enough for a while.....But not all the time.
Your boyfirend wants to be with other women. That doesn't bode well for your relationship. Watch, eventually you will find "clues" that your boyfriend is cheating, and you two will break up. Happens all the time.
It has nothing to do with you or how you treat him....I'm sure you are a great girlfriend to him. It won't be your fault, so don't feel bad.
It's him....he's a man, and men WANT women. Period! It's really that simple.
2006-07-10 12:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by Pulse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's a double standard, lesbians are cool, but gay men are not. That's because most guys I know don't really view lesbians as being gay. Why? Because, as someone was kind to point out, they think all lesbians are the porn-star type, and they don't realize it's not the same thing.
I'm sorry your boyfriend made you feel that way, just tell him you think it's disrepectful. I'm sorry to say, that from my experience-with both men AND woman-one isn't enough anymore. People always feel like they have to have more.
2006-07-10 12:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by Agent Double EL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs prayer, he needs to get saved, & he surely needs Jesus in his life.
sorry to say, but he has a spirit of lust, perversion. he's wanting to satisfy his sinful desires, of these type of sexual sins.
this is not accepted in god's eyes, & remember: god sees everything. he's watching down from heaven at all this corrupted behaviour & he doesn't approve of it at all.
i honestly wouldn't do it. nor even think about it.
i know that there's people in this world that enjoy relationships like this, but i'm not 1 of them.
you never know what type of disease you'll get, the what if that 2nd girl gets pregnant w/his child?apparently, 1 girl isn't enough for him.
you deserve better, you deserve the best.
then he makes u feel like u aren't good enough or just u won't satisfy him.
personally, i wouldn't put up w/him. if he cares 4 u, he'll respect your answer, drop it, deal with & get on with life with you. if he continues to bring it up, then u will have to make a decision in your life. good luck
2006-07-10 12:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by lu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They like the idea of being able to service two girls at the same time. If you're not into that sort of thing - let him know he either backs down on this or he walks.
2006-07-10 12:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him OK, as soon as you try it with a third man first. Maybe he will catch a glimpse of how it makes you feel. I highly doubt he's going to want some other dude in on it. But who knows. LOL
2006-07-10 12:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by stepmomster22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 is always better than 1
2006-07-10 12:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by ricgrif 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys only like the porn style lesbians.
2006-07-10 12:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by Terry T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're men, men are like that most of the time, they all have they're perverted times/ages/moments
2006-07-11 14:42:53 · answer #9 · answered by MusicNAnimeLova 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people want what they can't have. Thats why straight men want lesbians, and straight woman want the perfect man.
2006-07-10 23:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by ruler of the former free world 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋