How would you know that a man dosent want you? and will you all say it what are the signs. he yells sometimes and acts like he cant stand me but he keeps doing things for me instead of saying leave! my B-day coming up and im about to get a ton of ****.
what is the deal what should i say to handle him. when i talk to him he takes his own time to answer
2006-07-10 05:19:39 · 4 answers · asked by uabgurl22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some men have problems communicating... So the thoughts come out at as anger when they finally come out or are forced out.
Tell him he's hurting your feelings, tell him when it hurts, and cry if it helps you.
When he gets crazy and starts to yell and scream tell him you are walking away now but may like to continue this conversation when he's calm.
Usually, that wil bring about a small change.
You will have to work together to get things where you would like them.
Hope that helps.
2006-07-10 05:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by moakleyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if he is treating you bad now, then what will he do in the future? My advice is to sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him. Be honest and upfront with him. There is no excuse for him to verbally or physically abuse you....and don't stand for that either. If he won't change, then dump him. It is far more better to be single and lonely, than to be married and miserable. He may not notice that he's doing these things, on the other hand, he may not care. All this needs to be brought out in the open. Again, if he don't like it, then you sure don't have to stay with him. A relationship should be based on a 50/50 attitude, each one gives and takes. You're going to need to stand up for yourself with this, because anyone else can't do it for you. I wish you the very best of luck.......
2006-07-10 12:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's neglecting you, and it seems like he's rolling his eyes (even if he's not actually rolling them) every time you want to do something romantic together. Hmm.. like if he'd always rather go out with his friends than with you, or he was romantic in the beginning and now he's a cold fish. Um, basically the same things girls do to us are probably good guidelines.
2006-07-10 22:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by Joel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know if a man cares by the way he treats you...if he respects you, treats you well, bends to make you happy.
2006-07-10 14:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by california gurlie poo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋