i have been in a relationship for over a year now. ive never been in love like this before. i, however, have a bad habbit. i would chat with strangers on the internet and sometimes exchange graphic photos. my partner found this and is of course upset. this strange, bad habbit is sick, I know. What can I do to regain the trust of my partner and prove that I do really love him?
On another note, 6 months ago, I found out that my partner is HIV+. I am negative, but this has been a strain on the relationship. I think I chat with strangers on the net as a form of mindless escape.
This must sound like the strangest question ever. I love my partner dearly, and I want to work things out with him. His trust in me, however, is ruined.
Should I just lay low for awhile? Let him cool down? Or take a more proactive approach? I have sacrificed so much for this relationship, and i dont want it to be ruined because of something as stupid as this.
2006-07-10 05:05:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't neeed to lay low for awhile. You don't want to ruin your relationship even more. Be honest and tell him why you done it. The " graphic photos " has got to stop. How would you feel if you found out that he was doing that? I am sure you would be very upset. There is nothing you can do to regain his trust but to tell him the truth and talk to him about things that bother you. I am sure he is not happy he is HIV+ all you can do is be there for him and try and make things work. Ya'll have made it this far .. so don't give up!!
2006-07-10 05:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is Communication is KEY!!!! You need to sit down and have a heart to heart lay all your cards on the table. Talk, Liston then come up with an answer that will work for the both of you.
2006-07-10 05:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sports36 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should first say to yourself, do u wanna be in a relationship with someone who is HIV+ & u r not....secondly if u do wanna be with him u have to just show him better than u tell him...like u just have to be open & honest w/him...u can tell someone that u not gonna do it no more but if they dont see any proof they r still gonna think other wise....u also have to think well is this worth me losing my man over?..the answer should be no... the only thing u can do is take it day by day...and if he wants to believe u, he will...good luck
2006-07-10 05:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by T.BUBBLE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have low self esteem with the relationship since he is being sneaky with you. Continue with your fun with strangers since it is not like your having sex with them. He has alot more important things to worry about and lucky he didn't give you HIV
2006-07-10 05:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one ,but being on the net is considered cheating ...so instead of examining and trying to excuse your actions, just tell him his illness is effecting you a great deal. as long as you are not actually having sex with these guys, you haven't crossed the line yet....BTW ....as you pb know you can be a carrier of the virus for many years , so be cautious...Good luck to you both!
2006-07-10 05:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by Roxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make yourself trustworthy quit lying and hiding youd be surprised how good a little honesty and openness feels, oh yeah good luck with the hiv thing does your partner have lots of money youll get when he/she croaks?
2006-07-10 05:10:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ralphie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋