but your in a loving relationship with kids.but i spent the night with her anyway, we were like rabbits all night.yes i know i was wrong but its more complicated than that and yes shes married too.she goes back in 2 weeks so where do we go from here.????????????
2006-07-10 04:41:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay, first you have to evaluate the situation honestly, but the problem is, it is impossible for you to have the requisite amount of information to evaluate the situation in ANY meaningful way.
What I mean by that, it is sure, there is some chance this is the person you're supposed to be with, but you'll never really know because any comparison you make will be false on its face. You'll be comparing a memory (that time has probably polished to a gleam) with the nitty-gritty realities of everyday life. Additionally, when you two WERE together it was free from the encumbrances and complications that children inevitably provide.
Stick with what you know because there is no way to honestly evaluate that unknown "other" choice. You two split once for some reason. One of you didn't value the relationship enough to sacrifice or fight for it. Maintain that decision as you made it with much better information (and more current) than that you have now.
2006-07-10 04:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by soma_0806 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was just in the spur of the moment. Obviously you both had moved on because you each have separate families. do not mess that up. it did not work before for a reason and it should stay like that. do not see her anymore. it sounds as if your sex life might not be too good. maybe you need a vacation with only your wife where you can do all the stuff that at home you can not (because of the kids) have fun with your wife and you will see that what attracted you to your wife in the first place will arise again. And you and your wife will be like rabbits all nite long. take the vacation if only for the weekend. only you and her. you need it.
2006-07-10 11:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by sweetbeba05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have done nE thing what so ever but thats your decision and you should come clean w/ your partner cuz if she finds out l8er thatn its certain the relation wont last
2006-07-10 11:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by hedonic penchant for graffiti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say sayonara. no sense in wrecking a BUNCH of lives just because the two of you are confused.
2006-07-10 11:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋