My girl wants to start having anal sex but she wants an anesthetic while we try. A strong one. So I want to know if there is any strong, safe, anesthetic you might recommend. She is well aware that she will feel the pain later.
2006-07-10 04:29:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Anal-Eaze. It's cheap, very effective, and you can find it at almost any adult novelty store. But the most important thing to remember is to relax as much as possible, take it slow, and make sure she has used the bathroom recently before you try this.
2006-07-11 06:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
She needn't been anesthetized for anal sex! LOL! And she shouldn't feel any pain later either. She only needs to be as relaxed as possible (drugs not necessary!) and for you to take penetration slowly and with loads of good lube (like Vaseline or KY). If you try rubbing her clit as well whilst you are entering her, this will help enormously. If she says that it hurts stop where you are, don't withdraw coz that will only hurt her more. Then when she says OK, go in a little bit further, usually once you have got the head of your d*** in, it will feel better for her!!
Good luck and have fun!!
2006-07-10 11:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For her safety, DO NOT use any anesthetic or anelgesic. There IS a possibility for doing some serious damage there, and it's important to be able to feel the pain if something goes wrong. If you use lots (LOTS) of lube, and take it VERY slowly and make sure to check in with her to make sure everything's ok, you'll do alright.
2006-07-10 21:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best anaesthetic is preparation. Using lots of water-based lube (NOT Vaseline), like KY or Astro-glide, gently play around the anus with a finger gradually (gently) pushing it in. using a second finger do the same... eventally the sphincter will relax enough that you can penetrate her slowly (wear a condom - hence the water-based lube). Once you're in, rest there a while before starting to slide out and back in again slowly. As the sphincter gets more and more relaxed so you can pick up speed.
2006-07-10 11:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not use anesthetic for anal sex....you want to feel it so you can stop if the pain is unbearable...otherwise if the sex is too rough and causing major damages without her aware of it.......it's mostly psychological in the begining...just use lots of lube and begin very slowly....get her sexually arouse first do not penetrate all the way....stay there for awhile to let her adjust to your penis...if too much pull out and try again a bit later...
2006-07-10 12:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best anesthetic is to not have anal sex at all...although you'd both be missing out on a lot....if you have a small penis that might help...lol!!! seriously!!
2006-07-10 16:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by jasperson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prepare her by inserting a buttplug first during foreplay. It relaxes the muscles down there. Then remove the plug and it shouldn't hurt when you enter.
A good anesthetic is a little cocaine rubbed on the spot.
2006-07-10 11:38:02 · answer #7 · answered by murkglider 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother if she's not going to feel it? It doesn't have to hurt (you're not THAT big, are ya?)...she could try getting used to it by using a vibrator. Just use lots of lube and go slow. It is a bit uncomfortable at first but after a minute or two, it is pure heaven!
2006-07-10 11:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by Vincent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just good lub and a lotttt of love, she has to be really 'hot' and you go slow, in and stop, more and stop, for at least 1 or 2 min. then anjoy.
2006-07-10 15:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teeheehee ... do you mean analgesic (sp?). If she needs anesthesia for anal sex, you might as well just give up lmao.
2006-07-10 11:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by Nick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋