My man has a real problem with me dressing down, he always seems to want me dressed up (now). If i have a stain on my shirt he gets to arguing?
i mean he does not dress forme, he smells sometimes and dosent brush his teeth. What is his Problem?
i dont always dress down its only when im at home or cleaning. he wants me to look good but he never contributes to looking good money.
2006-07-10 04:28:47 · 12 answers · asked by gotchafool05 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'll tell you what, everyone else is telling you to dump him, if that's what youreally want to do then that's a good choice. There is no need in you staying with a guy that wants you to be his little hooker all the time. I personally love a woman that wears a pair of sweat pants and one of my old t-shirts (without a bra) and her hair pulled up in a ponytail or scrunchy. That is just sexy to me. To be dressed up all the time leaves nothing tot the imagination for those special dates.
2006-07-10 04:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by snuffy_muffy_eater 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This reminds me of how some of us (males) were influenced in childhood from watching TV and movies that always depicted the wife all dressed up, heels and nice dress, even at breakfast time, etc, and literally all the time. It's an unreasonable expectation on a husband's part that his wife be dressed up, makeup on, and ready for display all the time. I agree with your complaint. Dressing down is good and normal. Even in the work place, people dress for the job and the occassion. If he has his head together properly, his wife should look good regardless of what she's wearing and he ought to be highly thankful that she's so conscious of his personal desires, that she dresses up for situations that call for it. Many women (and men) don't do that at all. I'm not sure money is significant to looking good, unless he has some desire for you to not just look good, but to be fashionably and expensively dressed.
2006-07-10 11:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue what you are doing. You have the right to dress the way you want too!!!!
2006-07-10 11:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by hrry_tws 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a dominating relationship, and he is emotionally abusing you. If you look at it that way, you will see how battered and bruised you are on the inside. I would strongly suggest leaving him.
2006-07-10 11:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by Dave S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him,like a tonne of hot bricks.
2006-07-10 11:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by Scotty Wrotem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to see what he saw when he first met you which is understandable a good looking women is he pride of any man talk to him and come to an understanding its your body remember that
2006-07-10 11:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by ACE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the question is "What is his problem?"
Your man is a prick. You probably need to dump him and get a new one.
2006-07-10 11:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by ze_ro_ma_vo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a prick! Find yourself someone new who likes you for the way you are
2006-07-10 11:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Monday's Child 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a complete *** hole
id dump him
anyone who is that controlling or gross doesnt deserve someone like you
2006-07-10 11:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jacob C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's got a low self esteem and is trying to take it out on u..... tell him he is a LOSER!!!!!
2006-07-10 11:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋