I know this question has been asked a lot but I need help. I'm feeling a little helpless. Me and my bf broke up the other day and I don't want to go back.
2006-07-10 04:12:23 · 17 answers · asked by cali_gal716 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Slash his tires and pour bleach on his car.
Just kidding... Go out with friends; take a class; find a new hobby. Remind yourself of all his faults. Keep yourself busy until the next Mr. Right comes along. Whatever you do, don't get back with your ex.
2006-07-10 04:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by treasures320 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Go out and look for someone new! Flirt and have some unattached fun! There is no better payback and your moving on at the same time. Don't worry about finding Mr Right at this very moment, but Mr Right Now just might take your mind off things for the better, and you never know how things may end. Put on some boots and get to walking, Girl!
2006-07-10 11:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by adeliza_of_bristol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mind focused on other things. Go ride a bike, or do something physical. If you're religious, say some prayers.
Finding someone else right away is simply rebound and chances are it will not work out and result in more heartache. Take it one day at a time and within 2 weeks you should be feeling much better and gald you stayed away from him and a rebound relationship. Good luck!
2006-07-10 11:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you broke up with him he wasn't worth your time and he made you unhappy. Here's what you do to get over him. Go to a gym buy something sexy to work out in, you know the men will be looking. Go get a massage, look in you closet pick something you been wanting to wear or go shopping for something, go out to club and dance and laugh and have fun. but don't bring some one home, get phone numbers. And see what your new life has to show YOU.
2006-07-10 11:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Honey X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend alot of time w/friends hanging out or find a hobby like go to the gym or to some kind of class like a dance class. Just find anything to do to occupy your time so u don't think of him
2006-07-10 11:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to find a new interest,something to occupy your brain.Its to soon to find someone else.you need time out for you,enjoy your newly found freedom.learn things,visit new places.your world doesnt have to revolve around a man.you have plenty time.recover and heal.The last thing you want to do is rush out and find someone else on the rebound.
2006-07-10 11:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet somone new..it's the fastest way to get over somone especially when you don't want to get back with him..it just makes it that much easier!
2006-07-10 11:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for me best trick that works always is to think bout that person and then naturally and gradually u will see tht person's negative points and u will forget him soon............It's better to face it rather than walking away.All the Best
2006-07-10 11:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by Mellesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new love, he'd wash away your pain and give you a new life...
or, find interest, do what u always wanted to do.. live life for yourself and love yourself more! you deserve it.
there is a saying in mandarin: "as long as the old one doesn't go away, the new one doen't come."
2006-07-10 11:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by Raven Hood® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to date. That will divert all that negative energy wasted on former guy into positive energy on new guy. Trust me, it works.
2006-07-10 11:17:35 · answer #10 · answered by theletterQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋