2006-07-10 04:04:20 · 7 answers · asked by ralf j 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
Actively trying to make a girl love you is impossible. Even if you trick her with your modified behavior, before too long you'll have to show her who you really are. In that case she never really fell in love with you but the person you pretended to be. If she doesn't love you already for who you are then she's not going to. And maybe you're not ready to be loved that way either if you all you want is to be showered with affection. Real love isn't about what you do say or give a girl, it's about who you are when you're together. If you can be totally yourself around her, if you don't have to try to be someone better, and that makes you want to be better, then you have something extremely rare. Don't try for something that you can't force, wait until it happens on its own.
2006-07-10 04:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself, if not, she will fall in love for a lie. Don't try to create an illusion of what you wished you were, or what you think she would like about you. Act naturally and you will find not only love but also friendship and maybe true love.
2006-07-10 11:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by lain2121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't *make* a girl love you no matter how hard you try, but be yourself and yeah don't lie that will turn a girl off. don't come on too strong either, take things nice and slow. girls hate when you comment on her eating habits so don't do that, umm.... be confident in yourself. I hope I helped!
2006-07-10 11:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by Strawberry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as the above stated. You can't *make* someone love you. Just be who you are, be yourself. Trying to be something you're not will never work. If you're looking for someone to like you, just be you, and if it's going to work out - it will.
2006-07-10 11:20:09 · answer #4 · answered by Trazom28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can`t make that somebody loves you, Only you can be yourself and kind with her but is her heart who chooses.
2006-07-10 11:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by Smiley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Don't try to be someone your not! It works !
2006-07-10 11:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by Z-Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy way is hire them who offers,
2006-07-10 11:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by the moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋