its difficult for me to forget someone that i like but i have to....
2006-07-10 03:58:53 · 9 answers · asked by nilofar_mustamandi 1 in Consumer Electronics ➔ Music & Music Players
This is quite a difficult question to answer because you have not stated exactly why you have to forget this person, but I will try and help you if I can.
What I think you need to do is find something that will take your mind away from this source of problem. I can only assume that it is a relationship issue, however the answer for this is time.You simply cant forget overnight someone or something but what you can do is maintain a regular routine, psychologically throw in something new and interesting, this can be taking up lessons or socialising in new bars for example, by maintaing a regular routine you are keeping busy and by including a new interesting hobby or pastime you will find you will have moved on from this individual who you feel you want to forget.The sad reality is that you will never forget this person but you will find that you will get over the feeling of emptyness.
I had a similar situation last year with my girlfriend of 4 years, it took me months to get over her, but I started to socialise a bit more than usual and I found I got over the loss of our relationship.
I hope this helps
2006-07-10 04:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mark T 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that our memory keeps too many bad things sometimes. Or not as bad taken separately, but not healthy for us. Really good people will never behave so that you will have to make efforts to forget them. And you have to accept that not all are as good and pure as you are. They are worth to be forgotten. That is all. Time and work are not healers. As well as replacement of whisky with vodka for someone dependent on alcohol. Best healer is a realistic evaluation of things, which happen with you.
2006-07-10 04:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its an old saying but, 'time is the greatest healer' just try ur hardest to fill ur days with things u enjoy & other people that u enjoy the company of & hopefully u can start to forget this person.. hope this helps a bit x x
2006-07-10 04:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by devine_gem22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must accept that you like that someone and make peace with it, especially with yourself.
I'm sure you took the right decision.
Time heals all wounds but first grief a while.
Cry if you must but be strong in the end.
Best of luck to you.
2006-07-10 04:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by Andi Rolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself very busy. Concentrate on all their lousy qualities. Write them a letter and then burn it. It's not easy and you never believe that time is a great healer, but it is. Good luck.
2006-07-10 04:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by Wendyberyl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to move on if they dont want you. Stay away from social situations where you might meet.
2006-07-10 04:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by doodlepol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this a song? you might get more help, if you pose question on the singles dating bit... move on....
2006-07-10 22:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by paulrb8 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, it can not be avoided. Time will heal.
2006-07-10 04:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
replace them with somebody better ;-p
2006-07-10 04:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by JC 21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋