I have for the past 4 years being have a long distant relationship with a guy which I met in a foreign country.We meet every six months, we fly to a different location around the world each time to meet for a few days.When we first met there was that bolt of electricity for both of us, which we both never experienced before in our lives.We are bioth in our thirties..When me meet it is seriously passionate, and at least I feel that he is truly in love with me as I am him.My question is why will he not tell me how he really feels about me, and why does he not contact afterwards.I always have to make the first contact?
2006-07-10 03:48:17 · 6 answers · asked by lavito 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like he is already taken, you are a fun fling for him
2006-07-10 05:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by cherrygurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys see each other once every six months. I dont see that as any kind of relationship other than friends with benefits. You guys meet up, have a good time and go back to your lives. I think that is all he wants. He likes it this way so if you dont I suggest not meeting with him anymore.
2006-07-10 11:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if you should invest so much time and energy in this guy. Not calling after you guys have your time together sounds very suspicious to me. Especially since you do not see eachother often. I would think he would be calling saying he misses you and all the lovely things boyfriends say. I think you should be very careful in this relationship. It sounds to me like he is just not that into you as you are into him. I would not want you to waste your time on this guy when you could be with someone better.
2006-07-10 10:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does not tell you he loves you because that would be a lie. do you think if he truely loved you that he would settle with just seeing you every 6 months and never at your home. take your blinders off before you get hurt. there is someone out there for you but it certainly is not mr. 6 mo. man. sorry if this upsets you but it is time you faced the truth. you are not in love you are in LUST there is a big difference
2006-07-10 10:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by mama bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c it is VERY LONG DISTANCE.
2006-07-10 10:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by jhornneon23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you already know.
2006-07-10 10:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by SirenSings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋