I'm 15 and the last time I had sex was a few days ago... I was supposed to start my period friday... still nothing... I'm really really nervous and so is my fiance... please someone tell me what is going on! I've had servere cramps and my boobs hurt just a little, but they're not tender...
2006-07-10 03:37:22 · 12 answers · asked by Nikkole Downing 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
periods can be delayed for a number of reasons not just because of pregnancy. Stress bad eating habits and age can all be a part of irregular periods so don't start panicking yet, your worried about something that may not be, some good advice though "maybe you should play a little safer" GOOD LUCK1
2006-07-10 03:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were supposed to start Friday then sex a few days ago shouldn't have hit during your ovulation time. What you can do is take your temp to find when you are ovulating mid cycle. Remember that semen stays viable inside for 3 days. Do not let internal ejaculation 3 days before and to be safe 5 days after ovulation. Use birth control by all means. If your dude doesn't wear a condom - then it's time to reevaluate the relationship because you are headed for teenage parenthood. I advise you not to take on this responsibility so early in life-stay free as possible for your own sake. If still no condom - then have your dude ejaculate externally as much as possible and get what I call 'sex sticks'. These are applicators that are filled with spermicide that you can find at drug stores and Walmart. Use liberally.
Again I say to you-do not allow yourself to become pregnant. You have 65 years left on this planet. Don't let a lapse of judgement happen-take control-the sex and passion feelings are great, but it's not worth it. Your brain is not fully developed, and you do not understand the ramifications of what you do. You have no idea what you'll be missing out on, but this freedom that you have now will never be the same. Explore the world-concentrate on finding yourself-love will happen all of your life-the time of being alone and free is very very short.
One last thing-a person who accomplishes things, learns things, has interests, and travels is more sexually attractive to the opposite sex. Someone who has principles and ideas is also more attractive. You are only 15; you haven't even scratched the surface of your potential.
2006-07-10 04:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by Applecore782 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, during the later phases of puberty, your period can easily take
longer than you expect. You may also experience cramps and breast
tenderness.
As women grow into their late teens and twenties, their period will
usually settle down, but not always. It isn't a clock, and its timing is
not set in stone.
Consider that nuns who have lived with each other for a long time
all tend to have the same period - oh what fun that must be.
All that being said, if you are concerned, go buy a pregnancy kit from
your local drug store. You may want to take it immediately, and then
wait 3 or 4 days and take it again.
2006-07-10 03:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda sorry to spring this on you but A. you are too young to be having sex and B. your "fiance" is probably not the person you are going to marry. You need time to develop into your own person before you can try to get married and complete someone else or else you will never know who you really are. I'm not saying you are not in love or that you should break up but if i had a penny for every girl and boy who didn't marry the person they thought they would ar 15, 18, or 25 for that matter i would be a very very very rich lady. If you are not pregnant i hope you learn from this experience and learn to at the very least protect yourself and be the responsible person you pretend to be and if you are pregnant welcome to adulthood, I have the feeling it's gonna kick your a$$
2006-07-10 03:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by BeachBABE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet right now would be to calm down. Stress can affect your period so if you're freaking out about it, it could actually delay it even more. Not to sound like a nagging mother or anything but if your period does come (and I hope it does) the smartest thing you can do is not have sex until you're old enough to take care of yourself and a baby. Hope everything works out.
2006-07-10 04:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by dreamweaver_316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your cycle is probably just late! but if you're really worried buy a home pregnancy test-some can detect a pregnancy as soon as a late period of only 5 days. Next time, use protection!!
2006-07-10 03:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by dulcern4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely u are not pregnant if u had sex a few days ago.Your best bet is to be patient till the end of the week and do a pregnancy test
2006-07-10 03:43:01 · answer #7 · answered by bimby babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well based off of the fact that your 15 your period is not on any set cycle yet...it's normal to be late weeks..or be early, or skip a month, be light, be heavy...stress and exercises and weight and age all have factors in your month cycle.
2006-07-10 03:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by MyDreams2Be 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur probably not pregnant
u can be stressed out, and when your stress ya period dont come
so just calm down, just relax.. ur only not on bcuz ur so worried that ur pregnant just wait a few more days ull be on
2006-07-10 03:40:49 · answer #9 · answered by KryssyBeyondBeauty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are 15, your period still isn't regular yet. Wait.
2006-07-10 06:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋