I don't have a problem giving my guy oral. In fact its a major turn on for me (and obviously him). But my guy likes to go down on me as well and I have recently developed a mental block. I like it when he goes down on me, but in the back of my mind are thoughts like
"That can't taste good...I hope it doesn't smell bad...Doesn't that hurt his neck..."
Eventually these thoughts get so loud I'm not paying attention to what he's doing anymore and he notices.
I know these are things I shouldn't worry about. He says none of those worries are valid. He doesn't mind and really likes doing it. I still can't get rid of this mental block, though. Any suggestions?
2006-07-10 03:37:05 · 12 answers · asked by skrablesgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I should say I do have good hygiene. The only time I let him go down on me is after I shower and I always make sure to wash well. Most of it is mental. There isn't a bad taste or odor at all according to him. It's just in my head.
2006-07-10 03:46:21 · update #1
I had the same ideas about it during my first experience in receiving oral sex. I talked about it with my husband (who was then my boyfriend) and he explained why he enjoys it.
If your guy did not enjoy going down on you, more than likely he would not go willingly. Guys enjoy the taste, the smell, and it turns them on when you are really, REALLY getting into it. If you are worried about your personal cleanliness, there are steps you can take to make yourself fresher down there.
Talk to your man about your feelings. That helps a lot!
2006-07-10 03:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by sunflower1237 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think this is obvious. You think you smell and probably do.He doesn't care cause he's used to it. He can smell you even if he doesn't have his face down there. You need a trip to the gynecologist to get more information what you can do.I'm not a woman but i know that i wouldn't get this either. I have the same questions running through my head about the very same things sometimes, but, i make an actual attempt to correct those things. Doing nothing will get you nothing.
2006-07-10 03:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ray H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i worried about the same. but then i realized that they don't really mind. i am self-conscious about how i smell down there but it seems like a turn on to men. i have had b-curious thoughts myself and i probably would not mind eating a cute girl out. so relax and enjoy! tell him what feels good to you!
let me know how it goes. good luck
2006-07-10 03:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try drinking some alchohol to get a buzz, that will lower your inhibitions. You may need some professional help, zoloft maybe for anxiety.
2006-07-10 03:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The main concern for most is hygiene of course. Keep clean and most of your "guilt" and distraction will be resolved.
2006-07-10 03:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by Mahira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should listen to your boyfriend. He wouldn't do it if he didn't want to, men don't do anything they don't want to without some serious whinging about it! Just relax, stop worrying and enjoy!
2006-07-10 03:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax..most men wont do it if it stinks down there. Just let him do it...you really dont know what you are missing
2006-07-10 04:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by dede 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i do the same thing but if hes wanting to actually do it, then u have nothing to worry about. the only thing youd have to be worried about is if he didnt want to!
2006-07-10 03:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by DownWithTheSickness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take a bath first, then sit on his face so you dont smell or hurt his neck
2006-07-10 03:40:43 · answer #9 · answered by coolcherry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and enjoy. If it was so bad, he wouldn't be doing it
2006-07-10 04:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋