i had too much to drink and had sex with my ex. bf we did not use a condom. i just found out little while ago i am pregnant almost month or little more recently a clip of us having sex as seen by one of my friends she wont tell me were she got it and who from. this is stressing me out i dont remember seeing a camera in room.i asked my ex. and now he didnt have anything to do with it judging by how embarassed and upset he was especially when his girlfriend saw it. i dont now if i should let this go or not it stressing the hell out of me is there anything i can do ?before my current bf see's the clip we were on a break when it happened but it's really obvious i was drunk. and i have not gotten round to telling him i pregnant with my ex. bf child and we were just starting to make things work too! i never even drank before this it was one mistake and its screing my life up!
2006-07-10 03:33:32 · 5 answers · asked by jamie w 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
its not fair cant i get the person ho has the clip to stop sending it?!
2006-07-10 03:35:54 · update #1
For stress I would Try Yoga for a couple weeks then you can perform it on your own.
As for the video clip I suggest doing a google seach for the title of the video followed by its file type like the folowing
Jen sex .mpeg
go to each of the websites with it and check out who owns them then send a request to remove it to the webmaster.
2006-07-10 03:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by Vicdakota 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow is this an episode of Springer?? So you had sex w/an ex and got prego and it was taped. Sounds like a set up. The great part is video or not your still caught because you went and got pregnant. So the new BF will find out either by video or by you telling him your pregnant and it's not his...which would be the right thing to do.
As for the video there is not much you can do if you don't know the source. Even if you do there could be 100's out there.
As for the drunk excuse that is a very weak excuse. I hate hate hate ppl that do stupid things and blame it on being drunk. Being drunk is not an excuse for f'ing who ever you want. Or being a ***** to someone, or heck even getting behind the wheel of a car and killing someone...it's a stupid excuse. You wanted to have sex with him but because of current boy/girl friends you were inhibitited. But a little booze was all it took for those inhibitions to go away and your true hearts desire to take place...having sex with your ex. So now your stuck together forever raising a child. Just grow up and forget about the video tape...you have bigger problems now. Like Raising a baby.
2006-07-10 11:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by MaryJaneD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don'tworry about sex tape, everyone does it the only difference is everyone sees you, try taking pride in it. Second, is this person who you really want to be the father of your child? Work out pregnacy issues quickly. The new boyfriend will proably not want to deal with this (no matter how much he claims he will). This is a mess, be careful!
2006-07-10 10:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by nene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out (http://www.reducingstress.net ) there is a lot of great articles and expert advice on the subject there.
2006-07-10 19:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by marketingexpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to the age of wireless video cameras!
Just wait till the NSA gets a copy of that clip!
2006-07-10 10:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by virtualscientist01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋