dated for over 8years. never for once did you catch you cheating on you.even when you suspected, you had no prove as he dismissed your fears. all of a sudden you find out about his infidel acts.
Claims all those relationships meant nothing to him. but the year you got married, he still got a present for one of his ex-es and he claims it was nothing.
You have never hidden anything from him as regards your own past. he knows virtually everything about you.
2006-07-10 03:22:46 · 15 answers · asked by minny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Has he been unfaithful since you've been married?
If not, forget the past! You can't change it and if you've had a good marriage, what's the point!!
2006-07-10 03:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ilsa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I would have a hard time with that. I'm the type to leave the second I find out about stuff like that.
How long ago was this?
Gift giving isn't nothing.
I guess I don't know what I would do. Do you feel you can trust him? Has he been cheating since you got married?
2006-07-10 03:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by PATTY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the easiest answer for me is leave he will always be that kind of person and i learned that the hard way but i know in your heart that is not what you would want to do because you love him and he probably means the world to you but i know that it will eat you up in side always thinking about it and if he is still doing it you think about it so often that it makes you an angry person inside it is just not a good way to have to live but if you think that you have forgive and forget and he wont continue with his cheating then i wish you both the best and all of the happiness because not everyone is strong enough to keep it together after something like this in a relationship is revealed
2006-07-10 03:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by winter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maximum states not care about the "grounds" for a divorce. What the decide will seem at is the finest interest of the youngster. once you've been there and he's interior the protection force, his probabilities of gaining custody are narrow. He would might want to declare somebody else the youngster's legal father or mom. So, i doesn't complication about it too a lot.
2016-10-14 07:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by maget 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there isnt much that you should do or say you weren't married atthe time yes it hurts now that you know in which you knew all along but was just to in love to see and you let him tell you no nothing was going on as long as he has been faithful to you since the marriage you should move on but always be aware of everything around you and keep some of your own business to yourself you dont have to expose everything he doesn't
2006-07-10 03:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like if you want to hang on to a man, you have to be prepared for this.I think faithful men are few and far between.It's sad but it's a fact of life.As an ex-boyfriend(who was truly madly in love with me) once said to me "A Standing Cock Has No Conscience)....I tend to believe that esp coming from a man that would have died for me!
2006-07-10 03:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by lavito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends, it was a long time ago, as long as he's not still cheating can you forgive him? Was his infidelity so long ago worth throwing away your marriage now? Only you can answer these questions for yourself.
2006-07-10 03:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that dishonesty & disceet are a way of life for this person and most likely he will not change. Believe me, I know.
2006-07-10 03:27:12 · answer #8 · answered by ThatOneGuyWhoDoesIt! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad, but your marriage has been a lie. Seek counseling if you want to work on your marriage if not you need to move on.
2006-07-10 03:26:27 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Once you got married, you started a new life-FRESH. If he did something since that day of your wedding, then be mad. Otherwise, let it go.
2006-07-10 03:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by J. Brigante 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋