Why do so many people seem to think that sex is wrong?

Question

And only to be done to have babies and once married?

Sex is fun, not wrong! As long as your playing safe and making all your own decisions then whats the problem?

For the person who asked, I am 22 with a 9 month old baby. Been with my partner for 4 years and not married yet.

And before u make all ur judgement (oooo to late u already did) we have been engaged for 3 years!

Gee, knew there were a lot of bible bashers around but at this rate you will run out of bibles to bash!

Answer 1

It is wrong, and you should be spanked for even thinking about.
Now drop your pants and come lay across my lap.

Answer 2

The Bible clearly states that fornication is wrong, as well as just bad judgement (personal experience). Yes, I admit sex is great and enjoyable simply for pleasure. But, it's even better when your married (also, personal experience). I didn't understand the folly in it either until I was b it older. Sex is better when married here's why
- Lust is not love
- Two parents together is always better than a sinlge parent (if you don't know then you better ask somebody
- 2 parents = 2 incomes easier to support a child.
- 2 parents = consistancy & stability
- When having sex, a time will absolutely come when protection is not used (personal experience, ask somebody)
- Hazards of disease
- miscarriages among other thing are much harder to deal with alone.

Answer 3

Sex is the ultimate physical pleasure and that's a problem to a majority of the human race. It's hard to imagine a small, sinful creature such as ourselves has the right to ultimate anything. It's wrong to indulge, so they turned sex into something frowned upon unless you are under certain circumstances (married) to make people feel bad for doing it. However, it seems to me that so many people are unhappy and living such defeated lives, that why shouldn't they indulge themselves? But- sex outiside of marriage is or can become extremely confusing and hurtful. So, as long as you are being very careful and playing it safe, there is nothing wrong. Just remember to wrap it up! :D

Answer 4

Because many people believe in a set of values that was set down 2000-5000 years ago. These values made sense to the early Hebrews, but they do not necessarily make sense to the average North American. With birth control, options for protecting yourself from disease, and a culture that espouses youthful exploration, there is nothing wrong with sex, so long as you don't overdo it. Like anything, moderation makes sense.

Answer 5

I don't think people think sex is wrong, just that it is used wrongly sometimes. I don't think sex should be a casual thing, but each person should do their own thing and others shouldn't but in if it's not hurting anyone. Safe, consenting sex is always the key. My only negative point would be to young teens to wait as they generally don't know how to handle the full consequences and emotions and generally don't think they'll get pregnant the first time.

Answer 6

Not wrong- but your thinking would be morally offensive to some people. You have adopted a hedonistic lifestyle (pleasure with no consequences) that some people do not support. I personally think that you are missing the point about the "connection" between yourself and your partner aka the spiritual side of sex. When you are in love, you will feel differently than you do now.

Answer 7

With some people it is the moral question again but really we have to many people worry abotu what everyone else is doing. In class when ever a personal question comes up you have a hundred different opionions as to what should be done and people will automatically judge you. So really do what ever you want to do and don't leave your business out for people to judge you, after all you live your life by your own standards and be happier for it.

Answer 8

Sex is not only to make babies, it is fun. However, it is a part of marriage and shouldn't be done unless you are married or are planning to get married to that person. This is due to unique bonds that are formed between the two people during sex.

Answer 9

from the additional details that you have given, i think it's high time, you decided on way or the other, about finally getting into matrimony! your baby is only 9 months old at present, but what happens when the child is about to be admitted in school? would you mind if his class-mates ask him all sorts of questions, and he comes crying home? who is shirking from marriage, you or your partner? sex is fun, you say, but what about the advancing age? you are missing out o the joys of a proper family life, with mutual commitments. tomorrow if your friend walks on you, who will marry you, with a baby , born of some body else?
so my dear girl, wake up to the realities of life, and plan your life, than living it just for sexual pleasures!
how could you generalise, that what people think about sex? may be some of them think correctly, that a little bit of waywardness is o.k., but they should have a more socially acceptable, and secure relationship? don't judge people on your principles, if at all you have any, because you seem to just convince your conscience, that what you are involved in is right, whereas your logic tells you differently !

Answer 10

I stopped answering these questions if I don't know how old the asker is.

Heather

I think today too many people choose to worship god on there terms in order to justify there way of life.

Think about this “you’re going to decide how to worship him”
THE CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSE!

Or are you going to consider how “he” would like to be worshiped?

I don’t know from what stance you asked this question but it’s not a question you should ask others but one you should ask YOURSELF!

I didn’t write this to make you feel guilty and I pass no judgment I’m guilty of fornication myself.
11 reads And yet that is what some of YOU were.

You know a perfect man Adam sold us into slavery
And it took a perfect man Jesus to buy us back out.

Look up the word fornication.
PS There is only one sin not covered by Jesus sacrifice
And mercy to us both its not fornication.

May peace be with you in all your days!



1Cor 6:9-11
9 What! Do YOU not know that unrighteous persons will not inherit God’s kingdom? Do not be misled. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men kept for unnatural purposes, nor men who lie with men, 10 nor thieves, nor greedy persons, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit God’s kingdom. 11 And yet that is what some of YOU were. But YOU have been washed clean, but YOU have been sanctified, but YOU have been declared righteous in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ and with the spirit of our God.

Answer 11

No Way should sex only be reserved for having babies.

THE GOD made sex VERY Pleasurable.

It is by far SMARTER to wait simply because casual sex spreads disease........HIV can take 5 years to show up-- and how many different FUN FUN FUN partners can catch it from the same guy or gal.

The God dictates it for marriage for US - not because HE is a poop! For our well being.