ok so my friends boy friend broke up with her about5 months back, but she is still interested in him. though i and the others have told her to forget him, that he was not a good guy, she still misses him and is depressed, but dosent show it often.
so any advice as to how to tackle this????
P.S. shes very emotional.
2006-07-10 03:05:51 · 14 answers · asked by appy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There isn't anything you can do. You've already told her, but she likes to be with a guy treats her bad.
2006-07-10 03:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who has similar boy problems. I think the best thing you can do is try and keep her mind of of it. Since you have already tried to tackle it head on, try taking another road. Keep her busy and active. And if she is really depressed you may want to suggest she see a doctor and get on an antidepressant if she isn't already. Right now she is probably just stuck in a pattern she can break because she is simply too depressed to do anything about it. Deep down she probably could care less about this guy, shes just stuck on him because of her emotional insecurities. So maybe get her to try some new things. A workout program, or maybe get her to take up some other kind of hobby. Something that you and your friends can do with her will help keep her mind of this guy and have her refocus on herself and the people who really care for her. Best of luck to you!
2006-07-10 10:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An emotional attachment, specially a true one is not like putting on & off a switch. But one needs to work out like this sometimes. U don't suggest her anything, nor do try to take her out. Allow her some time, tell her that if she can spend her lifetime for this person, she can very well go ahead, but there is no guarantee what will be the consequences.
2006-07-10 10:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Tiya C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like all of us who have grown up and those of you and those behind you growing up.....this is a natural process. Just be there for her. People handle things differently. The only cure for pain like that is "time" -- there are no magic words -- you can't fix it for her. We grow up and experience pain. Although it makes you feel bad for her and I understand that, the ONLY thing you can do for her is be there for a shoulder to cry on when she needs it. Maybe get her out with others as often as possible too.
2006-07-10 10:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should tell her that you want to be there for her to talk about it, but you should tell her that its in the past, and maybe the break up was for the best. But make sure to be calm, and not push your ideas onto her. You know what she hates and what she doesn't hate, because your her friend, try the best you can. She'll really appreciate that your there for her now; when she needs you the most.
Good luck, and I'm sorry about your friend.
2006-07-10 10:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
going through any break up is hard so to get her back in the hunt i would introduse her to some guys mabe take her out to the clubs so she can meet someone send her on some blind dates but befor you do any of that spend more time with her have a girls night out with some friends and get her to forget about whats-his-name hope that helps
2006-07-10 10:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by ACE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and get her out doing stuff with her mates and help her stop thinking about him. She kinda needs to get over him in her own time but by you and her other pals doing things with her will help keep her mind off him and maybe even meet someone new, good luck
2006-07-10 10:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by I~Love~Baileys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i love the most is the sunset but i can't touch it or feel it or smell it but i enjoy it if she can't have him let her enjoy the memory of him and if there is no good memory she will forget him
2006-07-10 10:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her independent about her decision.
support her choice.
learn English. :) (do not get angry. just a friendly advice)
2006-07-10 10:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by tapsev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shes have to move on theres nothing much that can be done here
2006-07-10 10:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by cute chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋