I do not want to use condom on my 1st night. What is alternative to avoid pregnancy?

Question

Both of us are virgin. we want to fully enjoy the 1st night. So can we avoid condom and use some other option.

Answer 1

There is gel that you can buy that kills sperm...but its not 100 percent effective....There is also the pill but you would have to have your GF get a prescription.

Answer 2

If you are postive that she has no STDs, and if she is willing to have a child or abortion, then do it without a condom. But if you aren't, get her tested, and then do it, but if she doesn't want a baby or to do abortion, then don't, and I would wear a condom, they have thin ones that are just as strong and get more of the feeling as if the man was not wearing one, heres some thin condoms below. You could either order it there, or go into a local store and check. And if this helps, I could use ten points.

http://www.drugstore.com/search/search.asp?searchtype=1&trx=28198&trxp1=60&ipp=20&srchtree=1&search=thin+condom

Answer 3

Are you really that slow. You want to enjoy the 1st night. You're not going to enjoy it, if you're a girl. Regardless, it still hurts whether you use a condom or not. But, If I were you, I'd use a condom, its safer than getting pregnant, STDS, and all of that unhealthy stuff....=\ And use birth control.

Answer 4

You need to be on the pill 3 months before you can have unprotected sex as this builds up the effectiveness of the pill. If you are planning to have sex soon then your only other option is using a condom, which is safer now-a-days.

Answer 5

The only way to avoid pregnancy is to NOT HAVE SEX.
Even with a condom, you are at risk for pregnancy.

Whay are you in such a rush. You can never have a "first time" again.

Answer 6

OKay, you don't sound as though you are rushing things. The pill will prevent pregnancy, but you must be on it for about 2 months for it to be effective. A sponge (which is available over -the-counter) is an option. Use it in conjunction with a spermicide.

Answer 7

well to be honest with you, that's just not smart, either of you could have something and pass it to the other without even knowing it, plus...you barely feel a condom...there are creams and such you can use, spermicides...there are also birth control pills, but i think they take time to be fully effective, your best bet would be a spermicidal cream you insert into yourself can buy at any drug store, if your really against using a condom.

Answer 8

I'm very glad u asked dis Q i wanted de same experience so i had sex with out a condom we used the redrawal method but gal I'm pregnant. i thick u use a condom or u regret

Answer 9

one option is for you to get on the birth control pill or patch. see your doctor for these. otherwise use a condom you should anyway to avoid stds. how do you know he really is a virgin . guys lie trust me.

Answer 10

I'd recommend you use condoms plus another form of contraception for extra protection if you don't want kids. No method is 100%

Answer 11

don't be stupid. use a condom. It would be aweful if you got your girlfriend pregnant the first time you have sex, now wouldn't it? If you are going to have sex be responsible about it! And if your girlfriend is not already on birth control, she needs to get to a health clinic and get on birthcontrol as soon as possible! If she don't want her mother to know she is having sex and on birthcontrol that is fine, she will have doctor patient confidentiality and nobody will know about it unless she tells them or if her mother finds her pills.