What to do if one falls in love with a prostitute?

Question

Would anyone consider a relationship with a prostitute?

Answer 1

come on. we all know why prostitutes are prostitutes. it's the oldest job in the world and they enter it not because they are horny and lusty all the time but because it's a fast way to earn money. if this girl is worth it and you know that she is also true to you, why not? we don't really choose the one we would love right? :)

Answer 2

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What to do if one falls in love with a prostitute?
Would anyone consider a relationship with a prostitute?

Answer 3

I classify prostitutes to two types. Type 1 that accepts her job as part of her life...u can have a relationship with this type as long as it is ok with u that she will sleep with other people for cash. To expect her to completely give up her line of work is a dream I say. Unless u r filthy rich to finantionaly getting her everything she desires and yes I speak about Pradas. Type 2 completely separate her work life from real life so if u met her in the real world u'll never know about the secret life she trends. That type of girls will not allow a link between the two lives -yes you are the link- so she will never allow u to be more than a client. Even if she likes u cuz there is too much to risk here for her. Her friends, her family, how the world sees her. Unfortunatly type 2 is the one capable of giving up that line of work. but as I said the girl will never allow it out of fear. And believe me fear is stronger than love. What I advise u is trying not to see her...its hard as hell I know. Try to understand that there is an intimacy btw clients and prostitutes and thats ofcourse bcuz of what they do together so this might not be love so try to weaken that intimacy by stop seeing or reduce seeing her or seeing others but her.

Answer 4

If someone was a former prostitute who had gotten her life back on track and was working as a productive and functioning member of society again, then yes, I could forgive her past. I'm a very liberal and open-minded person. However, I wouldn't be interested if she were still in the practice. I don't associate people with no self-respect or who consistently violate the law.

Answer 5

A prostitute is a human being like you and me. She is in that business for many a reason. I am yet to come across one who is in it because she loves doing what she is doing. At least in India, most of them are forced into it. Almost all of them have a " My man" through whom they have kids, struggle to raise them and try to keep their girls away from it.
The question is relevant in a situation like " If my son comes and says that he is in love with a prostitute" what will I do? I will tell him to consider it carefully, see if she is HIV free, point out the problems, find out if she is also truly in love with him, and above all if he still insists, bless them and pray that they are happy.

Answer 6

i wouldn't simply because i am a woman. If she was nice enough and gave up prostitution for a one on one relationship then why not. Most girls are into prostitution simply because they cannot afford to live.

Answer 7

Every person has a chance to change whatever she is, wherever she came from, it is not where we base our love is,
falling in love is not always perfect, it is not a fairy tale..

but asking for a relation and not willing to sacrifice the pride won't gonna work, it is a choice we make..
falling in love is only the beginning, a relationship is something that you both has to work for, commit for, willing to fight for and trust each other, considering it without enough trust would not be a good foundation to keep it stronger.
We Don't judge people we LOVE , we try to help them and encourage them, support them..if you can do this to her, try to consider taking a first move.. no, we don't change people, it is her to change herself when someone offers her a good life together.. it her choice to make..

good day!

Answer 8

Remember your bond with her is money not attraction.Also has she ever told you she love you?There are two many factors involved First off the bat does she have any diseases or do you.Second of all does she have a drug habit.Have you thought about kids.Maybe she is married.Consider all these factors plus whether she has a pimp that will probably kill you.There are still other factors like police.I'm not going to waste anymore time addressing this issue.

Answer 9

Why does everyone think that prostitutes are not human... they are people you know who are capable of feelings just like anyone else, but they learn to detach themselves from emotions. If you have real feelings for her, and it's not just what she can do for you sexually then i say go for it, and you need to let her know how you feel, because she might be somewhat detached, and if it's commitment you want from her, maybe it's not an option for her, you need to seriously discuss this with her.

Answer 10

I met a woman about a year ago, she told me that in the past she a
was a working girl. Three or four months into our realationship she resumed (out of need) her occupation. At first I had alot of difficulty adapting to the idea but stayed in because I found her to be the most wonderful person I ve had the pleasure to know. The level of honesty, intimacy and her perception of the the world I found so clear and straight forward, a true pleasure to be with, someone I could be myself with and feel no fear or shame or judgement. Of course I would like her to stop but I feel that I have no right to deny her the way she knows to make a liveing. She is also used to being independant and does not want to relay on a man. Her being with other men I look at as buisiness, I know what I have at home on all levels and feel priveliged that she trusts me enough to share her self completly with me, especialy with her knowledge of men and what makes them tick. I know she can see right through me, and I cannot hide my weak points from her as much as I try. That can be hard, but at the same time, to be able to be myself with someone is the greatest gift. The hardest part of this is that I am really aware how dangerous this job is. There are so many freaks out there and my fear is that she ll be found under the bridge someday (God forbid). We re both middle aged and have between us alot of experiance in life and I ve got to say that a woman who s done this for a long time aquires knowledge by surviving and I have to respect that. I guess I started to write this to see what I really thought about it when nobody was looking and I m satisfied with how I feel. It does cost on a social level, I ve tried talking to a couple of my friends about it and realize that I m now in limbo. Some of them have paid for services but how they felt about these girls never came up until they knew I m with one. Ironocly, I have less respect for my friends now and more for her. She wonders why I don t introduce her to them, thinking I ashamed of her, but in truth I m ashamed of my them and trust not that something stupid would come out of their mouths. So in conclusion I can say that, yes, it has it s inherant challenges to be with someone who does this trade, it s a differant world with differant rules and a differant way of seeing the world. It takes alot of patience, courage where the ego is concerned, but there is no less love and devotion than any other realationship. In fact it s more straight forward, alot less beating around the bush (no pun intended), and much less fear about just being. I run the same risk of being hurt as anyone else, less in fact as betryal is not an issue.