we just got married 2 months ago and i hear a lot of sad stories about married couples and their fading love as they go through tthe years. I don't like this to happen to me and my husband. HELP!
2006-07-10 01:24:25 · 10 answers · asked by frustrated and desperate! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not stressing about it, stress has way of destroying relationships.
But here are secrets i was told by an older man who has been married 45 years and is still passionate about his marriage.
A Woman needs;
to know that inside everyman is a little boy and little boys are insecure no matter how tough they may look. They always run to mummy for security. Make your man feel secure at all times, when his world starts to fall apart he will run to you, don't say i told you so.
That she needs to keep herself attractive to her man. In other words apart from being the mother of his kids, his own mum, a good wife, a wife should also remain her husbands mistress. Pamper yourself look attractive keep him guessing.
I hope it helps
2006-07-10 01:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by salome 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you have only been married for 2 months, then you should not let this question linger on in your mind! Because when you allow silly questions to linger, they can begin to make you worried and ruin the relationship that you have with your husband right now! Don't rush, the two of you might not even have to go through that situation! Keep the sparks and flames that you have right now, Keep your faith, trust, & love in God, your husband, & yourself as well, It always takes two to keep the love and sparks in a marriage. If you are going to worry about what has happened to others love lives, the exact same thing just might happen to yours if you let it
Good Luck
And
God Bless You!!!!
2006-07-10 01:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be positive and concioulsly think about a happy married life.
You both have to talk often, understand each other, be with each other, support each other, and not ***** about anything.
You are still young into the marriage.. and the spark is cos of the wonderful sex you will be having.
THink beyond sex .. and dont think concioulsy or sub conciously about the fading love.. cos what onbe things comes in actions..
Actions will follow thought..
so if you think love always there will be love always in the actions..
smile always will always be follwed by a smile.
keep smiling..
2006-07-10 01:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only things i can think of is to give each other space to do what yous want because if you spend to much time together it becomes stale. try not to have a routine cause after a while it begins to feel like nothings happening. spontaneous you need enough to keep each other on your toes.
2006-07-10 01:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by hmmmmmmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a donkey, 3 chickens, a monkey, and buggy full of circus clowns. If you really want to get crazy add a couple of midgets, a blender, and a lage pizza.
2006-07-10 01:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by zmebme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication
don't use sex as a reward or treat, then it becomes a game and when you are loosing the game it isn't fun,
communication
always keep each other first even when the kids come (if you choose) don't let the children take over first place
communication
and communication
2006-07-10 01:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything to interesting in the answers you've gotten so far.
I will keep checking on this one, because quite frankly, I have no good answer. It's different for everyone!
2006-07-10 03:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by Ilsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please if you find a good and proven effective cure for boredom and routine damages, be nice and forward it to me....even better, publish it !
2006-07-10 01:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by Expat Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a flamethrower can provide that
2006-07-10 01:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Just a guy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be wat u r
2006-07-10 01:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by I~LOVE~TY!!:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋