When do men stop seeing women/woman just for sex and see them as possible relationship material? In other words, why do they have relationships at all if like they say, all they are really interested in is sex itself?
2006-07-10 01:07:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some men are only interested in satisfying their sexual prowess while others truly want a relationship. Those who are only interested in sex more than likely have some questionable characteristics traits that should be avoided in making a decision as to who and how far to get involved with them.
2006-07-10 01:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure if we ever stop seeing women just for sex. But if thats how the relationship began, it'll proabably stay that way.
A lot of women give it up, thinking that if we like it we'd stay with them, in some cases it works, but not with most, and for the ones that do, they don't last too long.
I don't think I'd look to be in a relationship until I'm ready to settle down or until I come across that woman that I just couldn't see myself losing.
2006-07-10 08:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Lisa
Well i agree that most of the men are looking for the sex, but i let m tell you that all the fist are not black. Let me tell you something about man/men thinking. Most of the men have 3 layers or thinking and most of the time you only see 1st layer of thinking.
The 1st layer is directly related to what they see. The first reaction to any beautiful girl or women will be related to the sex (kind off). In this process they try to scan girls body and try to appreciate it in there own way.
2nd layer of guys is only visible to those ppl. who are bit near or known to that person. The kind of formal relation where you don't really trust that person but somehow you are in contact with that person. This is the time when things get either way. The way where you go wards long term relation or the way where u don't proceed your relation and keep it formal.
3rd Layer of the guys is know to only close relatives or friends. the stage where trust is more important then anything else in life, even sex. By this time i guess you get to know that person very well and if you blame that person is greedy for sex then not its mistake , you are also equally responsible for that.
I hope you understand this.
take care
2006-07-10 09:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by ghulle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she refuses to give it! because most women want a realtionship and most have to feel loved and cared about to open up and have sex with a man. So by being in a realtionship with a woman, he gets all the sex he wants. Or if he is smart he will make you have sex before you are in a realationship and lead you on but not commit so there is no responibility on him to keep the relationship going. How to solve this problem: wait until he asks you to marry him, it really does work
2006-07-10 08:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by MissPriss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a dichotomoy. We do both at the same time. Yes we really do just want a meaningful relationship to last a lifetime. Yes we really do just want sex. Both at the same time. Logical? No, but does it have to be? It's nature.
2006-07-10 08:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by wild_eep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon the age and the desires. If his desires of sex is not satisfied by a single woman then he never be satisfied with anyone and he always look at the woman just for lust.
2006-07-10 08:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe i'm just being silly but i don't think all men are like that, actually i think they all go through that stage of just wanting women for sex but eventually quite a few (not all) of them will want to settle down.
2006-07-10 08:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by delise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It comes with maturity...
Maturity simply makes men clever...
It's still about sex...but we finally figure out how to get all the sex we want by using basic friendship building skills and completely eliminating sex talk and sexual innuendos as we get to know you.
2006-07-10 08:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they start at looking to start a relationship once they have noticed that the girl that caught his eye not only is sexually satifying but open minded and does not stereo-type men the way this asker seams to
2006-07-10 08:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by worldtraveler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men think the same. I've known a few women who think the way you describe.
2006-07-10 08:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by Robbie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋