mu husband and i tried everything we could think of...but still no baby, the stick still didn't turn blue! huhuhu!
2006-07-10 00:40:53 · 13 answers · asked by frustrated and desperate! 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Dear Frustrated...FIRST: Relax. Two months is really not a long time to be trying. It took me 10 years. Go on about your life. Live, love, make love, have crazy furious sex in the most unlikely places (but only legal places) and enjoy your husband. Take showers together; discover the most tickleish places on each other's bodies; tell jokes that have you laughing so hard your bellies ache; be kids together so that you remember what it was like to BE a kid. All of this will help to prepare you to see a new born child as a blessing and not as a burden. Lighten up and do things that you may not have time to do after the baby comes. Take lots of pictures of you and hubby together in different places...bug people to take pictures of the two of you together doing silly childlike things...so maybe you will have documentation once the magic of life does occur...and you can tell the baby where his life began once it is on the scene. Loosen up and enjoy one another...so you won't forget each other when there are three rather than two. Throw away the basal temp thermometer and love each other until you're both so sore and sweaty that you end up snoring together in a messy pile in the bed, on the floor, on the kitchen table, under your desk! Just don't scare the custodian! SECOND: Relax.
2006-07-10 00:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by cmpbush 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a miscarriage and 3 yrs boxers did the trick for us and just taking a break from trying. The stress of it all can really take a toll on the body. I wish I could be more help! Good Luck!
2006-07-10 00:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by mistress_lilas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey look im not an expert in anything that has to do with pregnancies but the first thing you oughtta do is take it easy
you had a miscarriage that might be bad news but look at the brighter side if you had a miscarriage this means that you can atleast get pregnant could be even worse if you werent capable gettin pregnant
you can always relax knowing that someone out here cares and prays 4 ya ok ?
2006-07-10 00:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by .:soulk!d:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything else, please read _Taking Charge of Your Fertility_ by Toni Weschler. It will give you the best chance of conceiving naturally, and, if you do need medical help, it will save you time, money, and discomfort on treatment.
Keep in mind, however, that 2 months is not very long to be trying. It takes even very fertile couples up to 6 months to conceive (less if you are using the information in the book mentioned above), and low- to average fertile couples can take up to a full year.
2006-07-10 03:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I bet anything a nice bottle or two of brown ale if you like it at all would relax you ,get back to the love thing, I found out in school years ago that an unexpected result of people turning off their TV's resulted in increased prenancies .truly just turn it off for a month or two.sit ouside under the moon, go for walks.go to bed when the sun goes down and get up with the sun. Only have sex when you want each other not for baby making, lay off a bit let the desire build for as long as it takes to get really ridiculously hot for it!.........no faking...lots of foreplay and nutritious food and dark beer. and go to a homeless shelter and volunteer to hold and comfort someone elses baby once or twice a week....but before the beer...........and call off all dieting if you are thin get your sensuality on with a few pounds of fleshiness
2006-07-10 01:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray firstly.. u never know when God is listening to your prayer. you are so stressed about falling pregnant which is not good when trying to conceive. consult your gynae and ask him during which part of your cycle are you most fertile. then take a break, a holiday with your hubby and engage in some well deserved romance to help you destress, and then some love making and the last thing on your mind should be conceiving. its not impossible to fall pregnant after a miscarriage.
2006-07-10 03:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by fate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 07:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by maget 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The average couple only has a 20% chance of conceiving in any given month. Give yourself a year and if you aren't pregnant then start worrying. In the meantime, you could try charting your basal body temps (www.fertilityfriend.com) to ensure ovulation.
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2016-08-20 10:45:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋