i havnt lived with her for 3 years now..im 19 years old..and i asked her if i could move back in for a while to get back on my feet and my gf too... she says no..but weeks later she lets my 1st cousin and her bi-sexual boyfriend live in her home for 3 months until they got on their feet with bills and such... anyone see anything wrong with this picture???
2006-07-10 00:01:57 · 11 answers · asked by Iceman 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
plus the only reason she gives me that i cant move back in is that i am 19 now and i need to learn how to live on my and my gf's own...yet she let my cousin and her bf which her and him are 21-22 years of age...... just more details to add
2006-07-10 00:09:16 · update #1
First of all, why haven't you been living with your mom for the past 3 years?
To me your mom is in the wrong. You're her son and she should take you into her home first before anybody else. Show your mom that you can get on your own feet without her, prove it to her and then let her know when you are doing well!
Good luck!
2006-07-10 00:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. It looks like it's either 'tough love' or she likes your cousin more than you. I know your side, I've been there and my parents took me back in and have let my fiance move in too. You are in a time of need and she wouldn't help, but then helps a cousin. Sorry, man, but she's a beeyatch. Did she give you a reason why she couldn't help you out? This is really about you and her, try to keep the cousin out of the issue as much as possible. It might be that she don't want to hear her son having sex in the house, but can stand hearing a cousin do it. Does she have something against your gf? Maybe she couldn't refuse her brother or sisters child, but is willing to make you 'tough out' hard times?
2006-07-10 00:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i think so your mom might just want the best for is it your mom you want to see and be with or your gf there must be an explanation call her again and ask her if you could go back if she answers no way then ask why
2006-07-10 00:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Iceman,
U have nt told why u started living away frm ur mother.I would suggest you to convince your mom to have a chat with you. Trust me talking does wonders. And when u will do that you will know that your question does nt even exist.All d best.
2006-07-10 00:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
three years? you are obviously leaving out information relative to why you stopped living with her at 16 years of age.... i'll bet a LOT of information. did you keep in touch with her during those three years? her birthday's? Mother's Day? holidays? did you show your mother any love during those three years?
2006-07-10 01:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by yer daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously there something wrong with you and her relationship and as a mother i can say i don't put anyone before my children
2006-07-10 00:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the first time you left it hurt her so much that she doesnt want to feel that hurt again, its possible she would love to have you move back in and hates the thought of you having to leave again.
2006-07-10 00:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course... That's not normal, unless you have done something really bad.. didi you? where u from by the way? USA?
2006-07-10 00:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there might be a reason why said no to u
2006-07-10 00:04:19 · answer #9 · answered by booyah™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sucks for you, but give me ten points anyways
2006-07-10 00:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋