is it bad for a girl not to want her boyfriend to go down on her?
2006-07-09 23:38:17 · 11 answers · asked by A m a n d a [[D o l l f a c e]] 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
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2006-07-09 23:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. What's ur age. I'm sure u must be a teenager. It's ur body and nobody dare even touch u without ur consent. In fact, I would say, if this is new relationship, don't agree initially. This would show what it is that the guy is interested in----u or ur body. If he passes this step and both of u are comfortable, then read a lot about sex, use condoms and only then get physical. Always remember, sex is something that nature has created to bring two souls closer than ever and merge within each other. (Please try to maintain the sanctity of this purest form of pleasure )
2006-07-10 06:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by fiveseven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's just a personal preference. Some women love it, while others feel uncomfortable with the act for personal reasons. I've had friends who couldn't stand the thought of having someone down there, simply because they were insecure about their personal odor in that area. Other gals could care less how they smell.
2006-07-10 06:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by JPsSilentButDeadly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you dont want to hear from any guys, but it might help. in this day and age it is some thing that is expected by some but it is all your perferance if you don't feel confortable with your bf doing that then tell him.the worst thing that can happen is he will leave you. that seems like a bad thing i know, but he is only in the relationship for sex.tell your self whatever u want but he's all time goal is to have sex! take it from someone that is guilty of the samething. good luck
2006-07-10 07:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by marvin04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't. If it makes you uncomfortable, tell him. Some women don't like it at all. They are afraid of the guy not like the way that they smell etc. Or just don't like the way that it feels. Sometimes the guys just don't know what they are doing, so the women have had bad experiences with it.
So, no. it isn't bad to not want oral sex. Just use your voice to say...I'm not interested in that tonight, or I really don't care for that.....
2006-07-10 06:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by running2adream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not bad but some people are insecure about it because it's such a personal space. you may change your mind.
if you find a guy you can feel that comftable with i would encourage you to try it. if you get a guy who knows what he's doing it's amazing, and if he doesn't he can learn.
2006-07-10 06:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes maybe your just embarrassed of what his gonna think. That's normal. After he does it once you wont be embarrassed, guys like it for some reason. But don't do it if you don't feel comfortable doing it.
2006-07-10 10:46:40 · answer #7 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the decision is completely up to you and if you dont feel comfortable with this then tell him. No you are not wrong to feel like this at all. THE DECISION IS ALWAYS YOURS
Take Care
2006-07-10 07:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by Dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. It can make some girls feel very uncomfortable as that is not something everyne is into.
2006-07-10 06:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by nurseTINA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.....do what's comfortable for you........but don't let fear make you not want to do something.......
2006-07-10 07:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋