What I mean is that contact with my youngest son has been difficult since I started a new relationship. his partner appears to want to be closer but i still feel like the villain. Lots of complicated histoy here, too much detail for me to go into. there are faults on both sides but i feel like i'm being heaped with more than my fair share.
2006-07-09 23:22:07 · 8 answers · asked by honey lugs 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We don't want to hurt them.
2006-07-09 23:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your afaind to say what you want means that you really don't mean it, or you would be able to tell them how you fill or mean. The body mess things up when it is a lie. Plus you shouldn't have difficultly with your son. No one should come between you and your son or daughter. If someone makes you fill like a villain, then it is time to have a talk to them, that is your son, not hers. But I also don't know the whole story. but as much as you gave me is what I have to work with.
2006-07-10 06:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be fear of rejection or fear of getting close and getting hurt.
There could be resentment.
Time and patience can heal wounds, so just give it time, do your best and be kind and compassionate. Humble yourself but not to the point of being stomped on and just give it time. When you want to say something loving towards him, be meaningful and sincere. There is nothing worse than sentiments said in vain.
Good luck.
2006-07-10 06:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by royal_78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the boys look at yr new partner as a person occupying his father seat. ask yr partner to become a friend of him.
2006-07-10 06:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not guite enough info to answer that one.Just tell your son that you love him and if he ever wants to talk that you will be there for him.
2006-07-10 06:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by fancyiam2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are afraid because we dont want to hurt them. I would talk to your son as it will let him know you are interested in his opinion and that your there for him to talk to.
2006-07-10 06:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by <3Princess<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilt is running your life. Make yourself happy.
2006-07-10 06:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make hime feel comfortable! and secure! and to be loved
2006-07-12 06:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by Hardez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋