2006-07-09 22:09:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
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2006-07-09 22:11:43 · update #1
Yes you do need to go on a diet...a boyfriend diet! Lose the weight (him). If he is telling you to go on a diet because he is concerned about your health and not your looks then maybe you should consider it. But if his intention is to make sure that his trophy (that would be you) stays shiny while next to him then dump him. If you are comfortable with how you look and you are happy with it then you shouldn't allow others to dictate how much you should weigh. It's superficial and at the least very insulting for him to say that to you.
Good luck.
2006-07-09 22:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by pinaypie_heaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a doctor?
I have no idea if you really need to lose weight or not, but that is not the problem here.
Is he willing to help you, like when you go out to eat does he picks out healthier items instead of eating stuff that will tempt you?
Unless you are severely over weight he should not be saying this to you. There is a huge problem in today's society with how women think they are suppose to look. I have been at both ends of the weight scale & my boy friends I had when I got heavy said they loved me for who I am & that had not changed. A person can NOT lose weight because someone else wants them too, it has to come from within you.
Ask a good friend,doctor or check out a Weight Watchers Center they will let you know if you really need to lose weight.
A real man will love you no matter what & help you to do what you decide to do.
One last note... I've noticed that when I'm on the thin side i get all kinds of attention but not so when i'm on the heavy side. I'm still the same person, ticks me off.
Just be true to you & do what you need to do not what he wants you to do
2006-07-09 22:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by coppertop1029 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find out here what your proper weight is:
How much should you weigh?: http://www.dietitian.com/ibw/ibw.html
Healthy weight chart: http://www.health.gov/DietaryGuidelines/dga2005/document/html/chapter3.htm
And if you do need to lose weight, these links will help.
To loose weight: eat a balanced diet, eat less, and exercise more.
To keep the weight off, you should lose about 1 pound per week.
Spot reducing (e.g. from waist or thighs) does not work.
Weight Loss Strategies: http://www.obesity.org/treatment/weight.shtml
Weight Loss, misc.: http://win.niddk.nih.gov/publications/index.htm
Weight Loss: http://www.consumer.gov/weightloss/setgoals.htm
Weight Control: http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/weightcontrol.html
Diet and weight loss (applies to men too): http://www.womenshealthcenters.com/bmi.html
Nutrition: http://www.pbrc.edu/Division_of_Education/Pennington_Nutrition_Series.asp
Exchange Diet (written for diabetics, but it is good for others): http://diabetes.niddk.nih.gov/dm/pubs/eating_ez/index.htm
Exchange Lists: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/diabetes-diet/DA00077
Exchange Lists: http://linkwrap.com/4241
Food Pyramid: http://www.mypyramid.gov/
All about Exercise: http://www.exrx.net/
Inspiration:http://www.jacklalanne.com/biograph.html
2006-07-09 22:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by crao_craz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your happy with your body. & your bf isn't then he needs to get his priorities in order. R u for show off? or is he with u because he honestly luvs u? to all that answered ur Q to us it sounds like he is with u to proof to his pals that he has a hottie & aims to keep her at his standards.. & girl u can find someone who luvs u for u & ur personality not your good looks.
So please move on ,be happy,safe & let go of this guy!!!!
2006-07-09 22:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by angelluvswolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you don't know how to post a link. So I can't see you. But more importantly why is your boyfriend saying/asking this of you. Your size shouldn't matter. DUMP HIM
2006-07-09 22:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send some photos!! Let's take a peek.
2006-07-09 22:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even you think your ok,, if your Boy frinds asks you to diet ..do it n when you start dieting may be he ll never ask you to do it
2006-07-09 22:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by shaan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, It is true. You are so pretty also.
You are very lucky because I am so free in this time.
2006-07-09 22:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by PiPi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to love you for what you look like and not who you are - he's an idiot...
Ps: Your picture isn't working!
2006-07-09 22:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by Chellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. if your b.f said that my point is that you dont need him. I sure your pretty with they way you are. and if he dont like that then you dont need him hun. I know its hard to relize you dont need anyone that thinks your fat. but if you love the way you are then you dont need someone like that
Good Luck xoxoxoxo
2006-07-09 22:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by ...♥BeautifullyBroken* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋