when its time to move on? i mean im married, my husband is pretending to love someone else. well hes with someone else but i think its cause hes hurt. he dont talk to me anymore. but i feel its a payback and dont want to file the divorce papers yet. but when do i know its really over?
2006-07-09 21:40:03 · 12 answers · asked by grniz07 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its already over, You just have to admit it now begin to deal with it. File and try to move on. It will take you a while to feel and know you did the right thing. But unless you have kids (which still is no reason to stay together) you need to move on. Life is to short to waste time on something you know is over.
2006-07-09 21:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jedday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over probably happen a while back. Your husband shouldnt pretend to love someone else or try to get payback. It's time to move on...
2006-07-10 04:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by Brownie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over. He's not pretending to love someone else, he really does love this other person. You're in denial and dragging this out so you can avoid the inevitable. File the papers.
2006-07-10 05:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If not signing divorce paper is one way to get even with your husband, so be it....But girl it's so hard to live without communicating to someone under the same roof. Give your self the chance to be happy...It's not right to hold on a relationship when there's nothing more to hold....Widen your circle of friends...Indulge in a hobby you enjoy most...when bitterness is gone in your heart then you can say you have move on and it's over...
2006-07-10 05:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty much over to me, or at least both of you have issues and need to grow up. If the payback is for some indiscretion on your part is your point then maybe you two are made for each other, you can make each other miserable together.
2006-07-10 04:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yesterday it was over. How do you know he's pretending maybe thats just what ur hoping dont drag it out too long cause when you found out the pretending was 4 real you'll wish you weren't a fool for staying sweety
2006-07-10 04:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by chevelle c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush into conclusions that your man has left you , do you know those outside love dont last, and incase you are getting roumours from friends then you are being mislead , calm down and give time to yourself to think straight.
2006-07-10 04:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by sweet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT COULD BE A PAYBACK IF MAYBE YOU CHEATED ON HIM, BUT IF YOU GUYS ARE GOING OUTSIDE THE MARRIAGE FOR HAPPINESS I'D THINK IT WAS OVER AND TIME TO LET IT GO, ITS TOUGH I KNOW BUT SOMETIMES THESE THINGS HAPPEN
2006-07-10 04:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by Lesley C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand whats wrong exactly...but when someone pretends to love another person....sounds like its really over.
2006-07-10 05:08:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself, if you love him.
If no, then time to move out.
2006-07-10 04:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋