2006-07-09 21:38:46 · 29 answers · asked by Kartal S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a divorce cause you should NOT be married! I hope you don't have kids!
2006-07-09 21:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by jezkap 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe how many people drop the word "divorce" like it doesn't really mean a thing! Too many divorces already and too many people not wanting to live out their commitment to each other. Marriage is HARD WORK and too many want to give up and jump ship when things get tough, then tougher before getting better. Divorce is too easy - a copout - running away. You can't expect your wife to carry the burden of the marriage while you go out and "play", do you???? How unfair is that? Stop for a second, close your eyes and "see" your wife with another man, in any situation that you want. Now, how do you feel? Now, put yourself in her shoes and "see" through her eyes what she might witness of you and the "other" woman. Have a little empathy, man!! To me, you are extremely selfish.
You didn't mention how long you have been married. Doesn't matter really, except it would help explain the reason you want to "love" another girl. I can tell you this.......you don't know what "love" is. If you did, you wouldn't be making a decision like this. You took a vow and now you need to live with your commitment to your wife. Period. End of Story. If nothing else makes sense, maybe the words from an "oldies" song will. "If you can't be with the one you love, honey, love the one you're with"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-10 06:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by time4me2fly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont even think about it. This is called an adultery. How you going to face the world when someone finds out. How you going to explain to your wife, the one you said "I do". We don't live alone, we are always judge by people around us. Don't make the same mistake like others do. Put in your heart and soul on the one you married to. Not even think about another girl or you will regret, for if it does happen, and found out. Live will never be the same for you. It will be sad. Trust me.
2006-07-10 05:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man is polygamy in nature!If you can handle it why not?If you value your marriage and respect the vow of matrimony,you can resist temptations!To be unfaithful to your wife or to cheat is an art if you will not be caught!You are entitled for another responsibilities and liabilities to extend another family and it would give you pleasure but it will ruin your family,but as long as you know how to keep secret and can provide for both women whatever they need, go on but don't blame anybody but yourself sooner!My dad used to have girls while married but he did not stick for a long time!You can be naughty sometimes but don't stick to the other woman,think about hte future of your present family!If you don't like your wife because you are no ,longer happy with her,divorce her!
2006-07-10 04:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd love to help you... with a good swift kick in the codsack! Better yet, why don't I help your wife fill out her divorce papers, you piece of scum? And right-wingers yap about gay people wanting to get married "destroying the sanctity of marraige". Men like you do so much more damage to the reputation of the institution.
2006-07-10 05:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by Princess Toadstoolie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have never got married if you weren't married because now you're going to be hurting yourself an your wife because she is in love with you an perhaps like most women does not want to lose you an yourself because you still may have feelings for her an its going to be devastating seeing how you've hurt her so much
2006-07-10 04:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love another,Way did you bother to get marry??..Just how do you think your wife is going to feel about this whole thing??..I just hope you don't have any children..If i was your wife,I would kick your wandering A*S AS HARD AS I COULD,RIGHT OUT THE DAMN DOOR..
Clowmy
2006-07-10 04:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1Watch lots and lots of porn so you'd forget abt ur dumb sinful idea..
2.Get a divorce
3.Talk to ur wife abt it
4.Make sure the other girl wants to hav sex with you then u divorce her.
5. Stop thinking with your penis but your brain.. who do u really care abt.. Ur wife or the other girl?? You could always just cut ur penis if it affects u with ur thinking too much,.... hehe
Gud Luck.. I hope umake the right choice.. Remember!! Think wit BRAIN not PENIS!!
2006-07-10 04:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by CatDog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your asking because you know that its not the right thing to do. Unless you are getting divorced and the papers are already submitted to the courts don't do it you will be sorry
Been There Done It
2006-07-10 04:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget all about this girl. And try to look for the good things only in your wife to be able to continue.
2006-07-10 05:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by El Hawary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋