we had a pretty serous relationship.. when we broke up 2 years ago he was a compleat *** after we broke up, but sence then we have been talking for the past 2 months at the moment im living pretty far away but i am going to be visiting where i used to live next weekend i want to see him but im not sure.. i still kinda care about him he got me to say it the other day.. and he sais he feels the same somewhat. he sais we need to talk. what should i do what should i think about this?? should i see him?
2006-07-09 21:16:49 · 16 answers · asked by jackie84 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why not ?You should not have any guilty feelings.I m not sure on whether you have the same type of feelings as you did 2 years ago.I would suggest that you talk to him and sort out things.If you do not hv anyone serious at the present moment,why not think abt getting the relationship back.This 2 years of gap would have taught me alot of things and he wld be up to your expectations.You will nv know.If you really think that the relationship is over,meet him and let him know straight that u want him to only be a friend with a Hi and Bye for yourself.Be steady abt your decision.Good Luck.
2006-07-09 21:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, being that you live far away- is there any realistic hope for a serious relationship? If not don't bother getting all gushy. Second, you have to remember why you two broke up in the first place, and why he was such an ***. Once you get those things together in your head, what has changed? And can he be trusted? It's nice to be in love and it's easy to go back to something familiar, but you really have to use your head on this one.
2006-07-10 04:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not, an old friend is someone you should not ignore. I wouldn't meet him alone, or in a place where he might get the wrong idea, but yes say hello, talk, enjoy the time you have together, why not.
2006-07-10 04:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I woudn't if i were you... Besides from what you say you don't seem to still ahve srong feelings for him... so what are you doing? Charity for him? he might want you back after he had a nice life in these 2 years now he wants you back.. But what you feel is the most important..
2006-07-10 04:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says you need to talk. Good start. I see nothing wrong with that. Sounds like you have nothing to lose and maybe something to gain. But, if you jump in the sack with the guy and end up getting burned, blame only yourself.
2006-07-10 04:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not thinking of getting back with him again DON'T SEE HIM. Seriously, don't put yourself in a situation where you'll be forced to say or do something without much thinking. He already got you to say you care about him, so maybe you do, in phone and in person it's gonna be completely different though and your impulses might take over. sooo think about it before you see him.
2006-07-10 04:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by G-gnomegrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, what is different since you broke up? The sweet talk?
Guys can turn sweet talk on and off like a light switch. Wait till he DOES something different, otherwise stay away from the loser, lol. talk means more to you than it does to him.
2006-07-10 04:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by Littlebit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its been 2years...if it seems like he has changed...then talk about it, if u all want to get back together...but dont rush into it...be friends first to see if its what u realy want.
2006-07-10 04:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think the time period since u both broken up ur relation doesnt matter if u both love each other seriously.so just give him time & meet him to solve the problem whatever was.
2006-07-10 04:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by karan2_143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. If you care about him and he says he cares about you, go for it, visit him. Just don't get your hopes up.
2006-07-10 04:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋