Ok so heres the problem a few months ago my fionce came to see his kids after spending 10 minites with them he said he was going to the store and told are 4 kids he would be right back a few days later I get a call from his mom he moved out of state and now its been a few months and he wants to come home but when i ask him why he did that to the kids he just says i dont want to talk about it and makes up an exscuse to get off the phone please help I dont know what to do
2006-07-09 21:04:23 · 3 answers · asked by kareni23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Firstly, do you want him to come home?
Secondly, put a few conditions on it, for your benefit and your kids. Tell him that you need answers to what happened last time in order for you to be able to even try to establish any trust again.
A couple shouldn't have secrets like that from each other so if he's not prepared to share it with you then don't share yourself with him.
Look out for yourself and your kids first.
2006-07-09 21:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 6⤊ 3⤋
put the vote to your kids and let them judge if they are under 18 I would put them first I rater fail as a husband then a father
if it had to come to one or the other I'm sorry ladys.
but then again the kids and you might come up with a plan to find out what happened oh what is his name?
2006-07-09 21:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Paul G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him no and tell your kids ur gonna find thim another dad
2006-07-09 21:15:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋