When someone hurt you so much that you cant think and it hurt sso bad that the tears dont stop and the pain you feel is so real it like someone squeezing your lungs ? How you make it stop?
2006-07-09 21:01:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You sound very sad. I am sorry. Getting your heart ripped out does hurt. It does pass.It's like the flu, its gotta run its course. You are going to feel better everyday (even if its just a little bit). It will all pass. You will find new love. In the mean time work on self love. You deserve to be happy. Peace.
2006-07-09 21:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by frogspeaceflower 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
go some place where you can be alone. Take a pen and paper with you. Write down your feelings and what you would like to see done about it. Then put it in an envelope and put it under your mattress. Then go and get a big drink of water as you are probably dehydrated now from crying and do something alone at home that you enjoy (watch a movie,a comedy would be best, read a book or work out) then after that you will really feel better. You still will need to work the issue out with the person who hurt you but it will not be so hard to think now.
2006-07-09 21:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by idaho gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, cry it out until you can cry no more. Next remind yourself that you deserve to be treated better. Tell your self how special and important you are (and you know you are)! Do something you enjoy doing and which comforts you. After you get feeling like you can face the person that has hurt you this way, Go to that person and tell him/ her exactly how you feel, how he/ she should have treated you, that you deserve to be respected and cherished, and then talk out what ever it was that made you feel this way. Once resolved, move on with your life and do not ever get that close to that person again (so that they can never hurt you in this way) I hope this helps, I know it is hard and your pain is so strong that is has you down.... yet pick your head up, You are Special and You Deserve To Be Happy! Which one day you will be happy again!
2006-07-09 21:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by Fantasy Kel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop it, but audience helps... Do not be alone, be with someone who understands you, who can listen to you for hours, talking and crying,talking and crying... Go out somewhere, do what ever is necessary to keep you mind from the painful subject. I never let the pain overwhelm me, although some people think it is useful...
2006-07-10 00:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lalasamayi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wud say it must be wonderful to love someone so truly. But then after being in love with someone so sincerely why spoil it by having a condition of getting back something in return. Be happy that you love someone truly rest all will happen at the right time.
2006-07-09 22:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sai 9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that your feeling that hurt, the best thing is to talk to someone.. try to calm your self down, soak in the tub.. If you don't want to talk to someone try keeping a journal it allows you to say what ever you want and just get it all off your chest..
2006-07-09 21:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry loudly as can as you could then stop ....think... all its over say I'm OK I'm fine I'm stronger now i,ll keep going ... then start talking to some one you trust him
this will help if you believe go to the one you believe he will not let you down cause he never ever did it before
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2006-07-09 22:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by Freedom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do but let it all out. The pain will never stop, but it will ease up in time. Broken bones don't heal over night, nor will a broken heart.
Keep your chin up sweetie, better days will come.
2006-07-09 21:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by Valag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me too. I wish I could have mustered the courage to tell that person how I felt but by then it was too late, They left. I never saw that person again but the pain has faded. Time will do it if nothing else...
2006-07-09 21:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by Confused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call my friend to be next to me , if you can afford it Why don't go on a vacation to keep your mind of things , or try out something you wanted to do but never had the time to do it.Stop feeling sorry for yourself believe me honey none deserves to make you feel like that.Hope you feel better real soon
2006-07-09 21:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by Dallul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋