Can sumone pleas tel me, why is my bf mentally torturing me tho i'm so nice, caring loving and being good to him?He cant take it that i have nice friends and i cna't even talk to any of my friends. His policy is tht, i shud give up all my friends or i shud inform him each and every step i do b4 i embark or talk to anyone.He's so sick and he;s calling me a PROStI*U*E for talking to my frens. I'm having an exam coming soon and i'm getting help from frens thru phone.My bf is telling me to just read my books and not to ask help from my frens as he said all my frens are AS* HOL**.GIrls, is it wrong to have frens when we're in a r/ship and guys, are all Men like this when they're in a r/ship? I'm confused.By the way, he called me a WHO** and told me to go and FU** with my friends.My frens are very nice and due to his tortures, i had to give up few of my good frens. I can't take his bully anymore. PLease advice.
2006-07-09 20:50:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anisha81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am 25 and my bf is 41
2006-07-09 21:00:02 · update #1
The only AS* HOL** here is your boyfriend. He is obviously taking advantage of your tolerance and partience. BUT.... it's ultimately your fault for putting up with it and your resposibility to do something about it.
2006-07-09 20:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by E-rok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like you have pretty much answered your own question - you can't take his bullying any more. If you cant, dont. You have no reason to stay with him, so leave him. Be careful, though - it sounds like he a control freak. You might need your friends to shelter and support you when you leave him, and seriously consider getting a restraining order if he shows signs of being physically abusive. good luck!
2006-07-09 20:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Leah S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd enable him sit down up and drink lottttttsss of chilly water! And if he's comfortable with a blanket then use the blanket if he isnt then save him uncovered and if this very last more then about a hour or 2 or starts to worsen take him to the medical doctors or like a urgent care or wellbeing facility.
2016-10-14 07:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by cottrell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you're b/f is a d i c k h e a d and he's only gonna tighten his grip more and more the more you let him. Get out of this silly relationship now before he isolates you from anyone and EVERYONE else who cares about you. Guys like this are nasty, you dont need it, especially not with exams coming up. You have a lot to worry about right now and you dont need to take this crap. Stand up for yourself and walk away, he's not worth it. If necessary, tell your family whats happening and get them to back you when you tell him if you're afraid of how he will react
2006-07-09 20:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by kandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him now! He's a sick and perverted loser who is controlling you. It's not good at all and you should leave him. That is no way to treat someone at all and you don't deserve this. I mean, who calls their own girlfriend a wh*re for contacting her friends?! It's ridiculous and I'm amazed that you even put up with it for so long.
2006-07-09 20:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by @~>--T--<~@ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't walk away, RUN! You sound too young to have someone this controlling in your life. Heck, no one's old enough for anyone like him. Men will come and go but your friends are always going to be there so let them come first in your life. Get rid of this loser.
2006-07-09 20:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt stay in a stressful relationship.Youre not married to the guy so there wont be a divorce process,you can just dump his *** and forget you ever let someone treat you that way!
2006-07-09 20:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you are with person like that? He isn't normal person, and you can't have normal future with him... It's obvious! Leave him before your life turn in something worse that it already is! You deserve something better, everybody does!!! If you have good friends, that means you are good person too, and THAT means you are able to find another good person to share your life with!!! We have only one life so we don't have to spend it with idiots! Respect yourself and respect your life and your happiness... Hope you will do what's best for you!
P.S. Do not expect your breakup will be easy, but be strong and fight for yourself (noone else will fight for you cept yourself)!
2006-07-09 21:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by bebica_77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not worth your freedom girl. You rather be a prosti**** than be his gf and live through the mental torture. Dumb him and show him that you deserve a better boy.
2006-07-09 21:07:09 · answer #9 · answered by coconut tree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you honestly not know what to do?? How about stay with him for a few more years - he sounds wonderful! And be sure to have a few kids with him too, so that he can abuse them. Maybe pretty soon you'll get lucky enough to be beaten too.
2006-07-09 20:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by oscbox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋