I'm gay, and one day I hope to have kids with my partner. My parents will just have to get over that lol. Anyways, even though I wouldn't mind adopting, I would love to have a natural kid. How would that work? With a lesbian, or how would that work?
2006-07-09 20:42:30 · 15 answers · asked by Me lol 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Thansk you guys. Plus. i could have kids with a lesbian, eh? lol. thanks a lot.
2006-07-09 20:48:06 · update #1
thanks a lot you guys. for once i have read something in the gay forum without any homophobic comments. doesn't that feel good. lol. thanks a lot. :)
2006-07-09 21:13:00 · update #2
i'm not sure what it's called, but you need a woman to carry the baby. doesn't have to be a lesbian, of course, but it could be a very very good friend. i'm a lesbian, and of course if we want kids we have to find a guy! a good friend is nice because you will be telling the child about it as they grow up, and i think it would be nice for that person to remain around as an auntie or godmother. so far i can't find a great resource for you, but i know of gfas (seattle based group) at www.gfas.org
2006-07-09 20:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by thirty-one characters 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I knew a lesbian couple that had children with a gay man(he had no partner at the time). Suppose you could always hire a surrogate mother, I've known a few women who do this for money. Both were artifically inseminated.
2006-07-10 03:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by LoraNutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Errr... it wouldn't. It's simply not possible for you to have natural kids with your partner...
However, one of you can provide the sperm to fertilize an egg and have a baby - perhaps a surrogate mom or something. But then the kid will naturally be only one of yours and not both of yours... Sorry!
2006-07-10 03:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by Eigengirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever watch desperate housewives? Well, if ya don’t, someone on there couldn’t have children, so the got a surrogate mother. They used the guys sperm to get her pregnant, only it’s done by a doctor. Yeah, it think that’s how it works. LOL
2006-07-11 00:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kohl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well perhaps, you can get a woman to have twins one with your sperm and the other with your partner's sperm...this way you have two kids, both from one mother and from you and your partner.
But biological two men and two women cannot have one child from what i know....but you can definitely try what i suggested. I recommend that you go to a doctor and talk to them about this...perhaps a fertilization clinic or something.
2006-07-10 03:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by monavyas15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless they find a way for men to carry a child then you wil never have "natural" kids with your partner. Did you not pay attention in school when they went over that part?
This is one reason that being gay is not natural. our purpose here on earth to to populate and precreate. Gays CAN NOT do that NATURALLY.
2006-07-10 13:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find yourself a willing surrogate mother - it is not necessary that she be a lesbian - and then ensure that you and your partner are recognised as the child's guardians
2006-07-10 04:05:32 · answer #7 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have natural kids only through a woman. Her being lesbian or not is not relevant.
2006-07-10 04:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by cooldude_alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm either u find a women who is willing to carry that child for u is the only way i can see that working unless u just adopt
2006-07-10 04:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could pick some one to be a surrogate mother for you children if you dont want to have sex with a woman, and i am pretty sure that they have egg banks. so you can buy eggs that way unless you have a female in mind that you want to reproduce with.
2006-07-10 04:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by Bebee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋