My wife would like me to last longer in bed but I just can't seem to last longer than a couple minutes. HELP?

Question

We engage in foreplay for about 20 minutes before I go inside her but I want to hold out for more than a couple minutes but she turns me on so much that I can't seem to do that. By the way we are young, I'm 24 and she is 21.

Answer 1

do more foreplay
or pull out when you're ready
or, see a doctor

Answer 2

listen up men, here's what you should do...
1. You should start arousing her first rather than yourself.
2. if in the event she start arousing you, just enjoy it, then when you feel like shooting out, stop her then you start to foreplay her. Lick her whole body then concentrate on her clitoris, until she comes.
3. After she comes, don't stop there. continue giving her oral then when you saw her back to the mood, then do the 69. in that way she'll be coming first than you.
4. After her second come, lick her body again until she turns fire again, remember the secret is in the foreplay. You will notice she'll begging for you to put your c*ck in. when that time comes give her what she wants.
5. while doing all of these, don't focus your mind on sex, try thinking of something else like things you will do to work tomorrow or what if you wife caught you ******* another girl, those type of unfocusing things.
6. when you feel your wife is squeezing your c*ck too much it means, the final blow is coming, that's the time you give your full attention, pump hard and fast, enjoy every second of it, then blow it all to hers. after that youll see your wife giving you a hug and a kiss and almost as tired as a dog.

Remember, the idea is to get your focus out of sex for the mean time you want your wife to enjoy that much, then when she comes for 2 to 3 times, then that's the time you focus on sex and release all the lust in your body for you and hr to reach the climax at the same time. enjoy men.! it works, the only thing is that the organ of your wife will feel a little hurt but the enjoyment is far to measure.

Answer 3

give her more foreplay and try to keep your cool! One thing that works, is having her or yourself pull down on the sack and very gently squeeze mind you to help the feeling go away. Otherwise take your time, she may be getting you too excited at the start!

Answer 4

Boy...that really is a problem.

Well depending on what the cause of your problem is, you might want to consider trying Viagara. It will help you to maintain your erection a little bit longer if the main cause of your problem is erectile dysfunction.

Sometimes it also helps if you use masturbation to teach yourself how to prevent your orgasm from occurring too quickly. You also might want to try using a vibrator or satisfying her orally before penetration. If all else fails, see your doctor and explain your problem and ask for his recommendations.

Good Luck~*

Answer 5

had same problem...hubby couldn't last more than few minutes...ok these are some of the things we do....take a shower and relieve yourself, second time always last longer....drink beer, it seems like it takes forever....good luck

Answer 6

Try a cream called Everlast, I've heard it works wonders.

Answer 7

More foreplay & try using a condom.Also think about your mother-inlaw,that should slow you way down.LOL

Answer 8

If you know you are going tot have sex that day then rub one off a couple of hours before you have sex

Answer 9

Foreplay, slowdown when you are close to climax..it works for my partner.

Answer 10

http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip/index.html Its a great site mate...try finding ur question...It's answers jus for evry question u need to know.
All d best!!!