because we are all different, some more different from the normal than others. most ppl dont want to accept anything that they dont know, what is new to them. they stay in their comfort zone because they dont know anything about you and dont want to find out. so then they tease and judge you as if it's bad to be who you are.
Some ppl even become a bit jealous of 'different' ppl, because they are real, not fake, so instead of learnin from the mistakes and admitting them, they make the idea of being urself bad.
in general, we are scared of big changes and anything non-familiar for us. anything out of our comfort zone.
wow that took me long to write. and i only get 2 lousy points for it. oh well, hope it helped!
2006-07-09 20:26:17
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answered by Anonymous
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It's all about comparison not really being judgmental.
You look at someone and comment on something not because you have to make a "decision" which would be judgmental.
But you comment, because it does not suit your taste or idea of what should be. It also works the opposite, where you say good things about others and there again you are not judging them...
2006-07-10 00:01:38
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answered by Anonymous
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Religion, Parental Influences, Environment...
2006-07-09 20:23:53
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answered by millionknives174 2
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i believe we are so judge mental, because, especially when it comes to relationships, with the opposite sex etc, then we often become extremely judgmental or lower our standards to much..
we judge because we only want to surround ourselves with the very best, we don't want to be surrounded by people who we see unfit to be our friends..we all have our standards. and i myself judge people to quickly..
and this is because, i am not perfect, but i have tried to correct my flaws, have my teeth straightened,, do well at school, be funny...
so when i meet a guy who has wonky teeth for example..i reckon he is not good enough for me
and i know this is wrong, because he may have a beautiful heart, and he may treat me better than the next guy with straight teeth..but i judge because i be live if i have made such a great effort to present myself as an honorable person..why cant the next person do the same?
2006-07-09 20:26:57
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answered by adialidal 2
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i believe u to. I easily have a difficulty happening acceptable this second the position i must be prego and that i'm no longer efficient. I easily have my tubes tied and if that befell i ought to ought to get an abortion reason there must be no way that i ought to have the toddler. it ought to kill my body to sense I easily have my tubes tied. So ya i understand and that i do see alot of people keeping i'm prego and say a collection of stuff about getting an abortion i understand some ought to undertake yet i cant do this both there must be no way i ought to have this toddler!
2016-11-06 03:20:08
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answered by ? 3
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I don't pass judgment on looks, money, or marital status, I try not to judge, however I do judge peoples actions. Like, drinking and driving, abusing animals or children, etc...
2006-07-09 20:44:11
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answered by ? 6
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That's what makes us Human,
We always think (most of the time ), that we are right or that our point of view is the correct one and until we are proven otherwise or are taken out of ignorance we tend to Judge.
2006-07-09 20:33:59
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answered by Rick 77 O 2
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Part of our basic makeup. A survival trait, no doubt.
2006-07-09 20:27:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Probably in the past we were judged a lot, or our parents judged us a lot, i dunno, my family is so judgmental but i try not to hurt other people by my judges or comments
2006-07-09 21:36:44
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answered by what goes around comes around 3
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envy and feeling of threat. everyone wants to have purpose. why live w/o a purpose.
2006-07-09 23:30:57
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answered by Anonymous
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