im her older sister im 17 and he used to be my friend until we got into a fight about 3 months ago and now he does stuff with her... adn they say i love you all the time to each other but when i ask either of them about it they say its nothing....
2006-07-09 20:15:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
of course they say nothing.. it's against the law.. and they will or could be in deep deep poopy.. heh.. no guy wants to go to jail for 4 years.. that's why it's a punishment.. and will anything go wrong between them? That's why there is a law against it.. If they are just talking, making plans, talking to parents, and having a real relationship.. than this is doable. If the guy really is serious and has nothing to hide, then he can talk to your parents.. If he's just a jerk after a young girl.. then he'll run.. but you also have to consider.. maybe your sis is the one who just wants a more mature sex buddy.. it's not going to go well.. unless he's serious.. but hey.. what can you do.. it's her sex buddy.. either try to help by imposing.. or let her have her sex buddy, and if she get's her heart broken.. try to help her coax, be happy again, and help her learn from her mistake..
2006-07-09 20:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by kerbourchardalan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the relationship. If it is like a brother sister type of friendship then it is okay. My sister-in-law and I were good friends and I am 6 years older than her. We were friends when she was 16 but I would be a little worried because he has no obligation to her. He might be doing it to make you angry or just to see you as much as he can. The motives that I would be questioning is the 20 year olds.
2006-07-10 03:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is not cool. You must stop it. As an older sister I know that your sister thinks its OK because you did it. 20 year old men are interested in 15 yr old girls (and 17 for that matter) for one reason only. ONLY if he is a major dork or severely unattractive is this OK.
2006-07-10 03:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by gerkitt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird...it's wrong. Inform your parents and have the relationship cut off. Is your sister use to getting hand me down boy friends? Tell her to wise up and realize what this jerk is doing. There is nothing normal about jumping to another sister. He's not being sincere to one of you..if either.
2006-07-10 03:22:54 · answer #4 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just as long her is not a teacher or an aid in her school. Actually it is a bag stab to you. The whole love you crap they say is to make your jealouse. Have a talk with your parents that you are concerned.
2006-07-10 03:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 18 and was good friends with a 45 year old.
2006-07-10 03:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The family has to get involved and get down to grass-roots level. The elderly members of the family just can't absolve themselves, of their due responsibilities.
2006-07-10 03:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this relationship is healthy. I'm sure your sister could find herself in an uncomfortable situation. As her sister, you may try discussing this with her, or even better, discussing it with him, as he is the older party.
2006-07-10 03:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by shelovesstars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not her friend. He wants to use her for his personal needs. Period. She has no clue at 15. Tell your folks what's going on. He's a pedaphile. You don't need him either.
2006-07-10 03:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know an 18 yr old girl thats friends with a 38 yr old.. its creepy
2006-07-10 03:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by Annika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋