if u know that sum1 hates you....do u feel bad/sad or do u hate that person for hating u?
2006-07-09 20:14:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
If I knew that someone hated me...it would depend on why they hated me...if it was for no reason that could be justified as a reason to hate someone, and they were just being a " Hater " then I wouldn't care. I would neither feel bad nor hate them in return for hating me, that's just stupid! I wouldn't give that person the time of day!
Now, if I did something hurtful to that person, or perhaps if they were a friend before this whole " Hatred " started between us then I might feel bad because I would feel responsible for why that person or ( former friend ) had those feelings towards me, but I wouldn't let it get me down feeling bad forever. Life goes on, and so do you.
Life is too short to waste time on hating someone, much less a person who hated you first so that's why you hate them!! What the hell is that??? Even letting someone who hates you make you feel bad or get you down.....is giving that person exactly what they wanted you to feel like, and that's not cool. Rise above it, be better than someone who is petty and hates you, it simply is not worth it to waste feelings, emotions, care, anger, attention of any sort on someone like that who " Hates " you.
2006-07-09 20:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by Blondie* 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You should have better reasons to hate people. I'm 23. I don't hate anyone. You don't have to feel bad or sad either. That person obviously doesn't know how to channel their energies in a more positive manner. Don't even bother feeling sorry for them either. They're probably not capable of understanding.
2006-07-10 03:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy Ray 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let it go. really. it feels bad at first that someone hates you, but there may be nothing you can do about that. plus, would you really want to change for someone else? i understand feeling sad about it, but this is totally the hater's problem. you cannot change thier feelings. keep control of your own and keep them positive when you can.
2006-07-10 03:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by thirty-one characters 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do know someone that 'hates' me. Im not sure if she truly does though I do know that she really dislikes me. its all because her friend thinks im annoying... and I really dont give a f*ck. she can think what she wants and like/hate who she wants and thats none of my business. so my answer is no, I dont hate her for hating me and I think that if she really decided to get to know me, then she would not feel that way.
2006-07-10 03:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
personaly i would want to kick their a** but the GODLY thing to do is pray for the Lord to touch their hearts.
2006-07-10 03:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋